How can I re-gain my desire for sex again?
When I first got married, my husband was into porn and it really had a bad effect on our sex life. He didn’t want it as often as me, and he was disconnected.
Now that he has stopped, he is so into me and really loves sex with me, and wants it more consistently. The problem is, I’m not as excited anymore, because of the rejection I think during the 1st three years. This is year four. How can I get my excitement back?
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Keep talking to him about the issues and keep working through them… and have sex anyway.
Teach him what you need for foreplay. Figure out what you need for foreplay. It doesn’t start 10 minutes before you hit the sheets; ideally need to "make love" to each other all week and that cumulates in spontaneous sex. Less spontaneous and more scheduled if you have kids; but you don’t have to schedule which room or what exact time. You can leave something to spontaneity.
Have sex. That tends to make you want more.
The biggest sex organ in the human body is the brain, and yours is too cluttered up with resentment to let you relax and enjoy sex. The cure to resentment is forgiveness. You need to forgive your husband, and tell him so, describing exactly what you’re forgiving him for. After you truly forgive him, the sex will feel great and exciting again, I guarantee it.
you have to just get up on it,once you get the ball rollin aint no stopping!!!
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Try talking dirty to a guy in bed, or at least push your limits a little. Guys like adventurous girls. And girls that are not shy.