How do you let a guy know that you appreciate him?
I’m seeing this guy & he’s just great. I recently started reading a book called "For Women Only:What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men." The author said that men need affirmation. I want to let him know how truly awesome he is. We don’t say "I love you," so that’s not something I can say. We’re saving sex for marriage, so that leaves out anything sexual. I just want to let him know that I appreciate him & I’m glad that he’s in my life.
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Without sex, all you can do is continue to be good to him and stay by his side. I pretty sure he already knows you love him. Most REAL men don’t care about recieving card, flowers and gift. Once we realize that we have found a good woman, that is all we need.
PS. Please do not take any womens advise on how to please a man!!! Us men know what we want and women think they know what we want!!! My female friends was my best source of info on how to please a women!!!! My male friend didn’t know crap!!!! They have never had CRAMPS
I wish you da best
Say, "Baby I really appreciate you for everything" and give him a hug…simple.
Don’t get caught up in all of those books just be normal.
one thing you can do is buy him a card. write how you really feel. they have cards out there that will say something along the lines of "when i count my blessings i count you twice" that should make him feel good. another thing to do is say "thank you" to him whenever he does something for you. even if it’s something as simple as opening a door or getting you a pop.
at a random time give him some…head
if not than just give him a random surprise like something that he likes or go out for dinner n do seomthing he likes n let him know verbally that hes appreciated
Give him a hug, a long kiss and then tell him how you feel
just randomly say u ,love him
plan a day just the two of u
go on vacation even if its sumthin as simple as a nice hotel
make love to him
let hin knoe u really care about him and love him all night long
Maybe go for a walk or a meal, somewhere relaxed where you can talk easily, and just tell him how you feel. Tell him you think he’s great and if he says something sweet or does something you like, like holding the door open, then tell him it was really sweet or you like it when he does that. And one of you has to say ‘i love you’ first so if you feel it say it, and if he doesn’t reciprocate don’t take it too hard.
if a really important sporting event is comping up, make homemade hot wings with him and tell him that you love him, all guys like hot wings, its part of our DNA
just send him a really sweet text telling him how much he means to you and how mappy hes makes you feel etc:
Take him out for the day. Tell him that he can choose what to do for the day. Kiss him, hug him. And it won’t hurt to talk..tell him that your happy hes in you live, maybe you could say
‘i’m happy your in my lifee, you were worth waiting for, i think i found something while we’ve been dating, love, i love you
Hope it goes okay
so you don’t say "i love u" and you don’t have sex…. why not? Because some one gave you the idea that it’s bad?
You two need to go with what feels mutually natural for YOU… not what you think others feel is "correct" behavior.
If you feel like saying "I love You" then say it. If you feel like it’s the right time to have sex, then have it!
It’s not just he who needs the affirmation of the commitment. You need it too. If you’re lollygagging around waiting for each other to find some socially acceptable form of expressing that appreciation, then you’re just agonizing in self-inflicted pain and you’ll end up separated.
Do what you feel is right for YOU!
put down the book. and then tell him that you appriciate him so much, you stopped reading self help books.
The Ninja Trainer says, “Thank you”.