how can i get my ex-boyfriend to want me back?
my exboyfriend and i ended things about a month ago, mainly because he liked another girl. it now looks as if they will never become anything more then just friends.(he is going to homecoming with her though). I see him in the hallways at least twice a day, and eveytime we’ll smile or say hi.. but sometimes i’ll just walk right past him and not even look at him. (beacause sometimes i think its akward; expecially if im walking with one of my guy friends). It seems like the right time to try to make things better and i’d really like to go back out with him.. and at least start talking again.. How can i get him to want me back? what should i do?? i need advise!
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consult the song "i want you back" by the jackson 5
Just talk to him about it….tell him what you just told us.
time machine!!
Why do you want to be with a guy who wants to be with another girl? Find yourself a nice guy who is into you, ask him to homecoming and have fun!
You need to move on. Realize that you guys had your chance and it didn’t work out.
Once an ex, always an ex.
OK, first start dating some guys he knows. Before you take him back you have to make a point. The point is he takes a gril you take 2 guys.
So get busy. Be nice. Be friendly. But be busy with other guys. He will get the message. Seems like he got a date from the other girl but nothing else. Make sure these guys do get more.
BC
well havin a girl walk around that i liked still ata we broke up with oda guys made me mad. so instead of sittin around getting angry all the time for nuttin, i took control and spoke to her about the way i feel and apologized for all that i have done wrong.
Wat am tryin to say is make him feel that you want to talk him. if you’d ignore me i will ignore yout too.
You can’t "make" him want you back. But can you call him on the phone or meet him in person and talk about the break up and the current status of your relationship? Tell him you’re still interested in him and see what he has to say. If he decides that he doesn’t want to be with you, you have to let him go and then move on.
But you are talking,, you greet each other, so leave it that way. He is the one who dumped you, ,right? OK, so you just keep your distance from him as you are doing now. Good that you even look at each other. Let him want to come back to you,, If things are not going well with his present gf, then let them break up but you should not get in the way and speed things up. He has to want you back, that is all there it to it,, hold on to your dignity and self respect. One month is nothing , ,give it time. Soon after he breaks up with the other girl,, not a good time for you to jump in and take over, he has to learn from his mistakes and for that you have to have patience and let him get over the other girl. You need to try and be his friend that is it,, until he wants more from you,, you with you.
Well, you can’t "get" him to want you back, he has to feel that for himself, but if you just put yourself out there and TALK TO HIM, you might be able to get the spark going again. Tell him that you feel like you deserve a second chance at the relationship.
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
if you desire to get your ex back check these 3 recommended steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t get your goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t pester your ex boyfriend. Guys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously make phone calls to him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s better to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it’s recommended to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back. For more tips on how to get ex boyfriend back and relationship advice check the great blog of Mike and Dianne. Here’s the address:
http://backwithextips.com
I hope that you will get your ex boyfriend back soon!