Don’t ask him, TELL HIM, to get off his LAZY BUTT and get a job, that your sick and tired of trying to do it all yourself, because you can’t. You need help.

He needs to realize that he needs to be a man and live up to his responsibilities at home and help to provide for his family.

I was wondering how different people will response if the person who asked this question was a wife not a husband.

Does he has any problem like depression? Can you both work this out?

Look on the bright side, he are helping you with your another job, helping around the house, with your son and your mom. For me, that is something. The fact that you are free to pursue your career path and further education-do you realize how lucky you are?

Open up and talk things through with your husband if you still love and want him.

Good luck!

Find alternative ways to get your son to school .. and for help with him. And with your Mom, too.

You can tell him .. that no one knows how long it will be before anyone drops dead.

Really think if you want to live with a man who probably will never get a job. If you don’t .. then it sounds evident that you could take care of you, your son, your mother – without him .. your husband could be another liability.

If your husband is able to work … then consider on insisting that he get a job. If he continues to refuse to get a job .. or just simple don’t get a job … then decide if you want to live this way for the rest of your life … or not.

If you don’t .. then put your pre-arranged plan into action.

Think of what your future would be like without him in your future … versus …. now.

Your have choices. Only you, knows what will be best for your life.

If you are unhappy … then try to find happiness. Happiness will show on you .. and on everything else that you do.