Comments on: disfigured face, will i ever find love again?

By: Lindaluv

Lindaluv — Thu, 23 Sep 2010 22:39:35 +0000

I wish I could post a pic of my boyfriend and I. Cancer from the sun disfigured his face. He is so skinny and has a new bottom lip/chin, half a tongue, and bald spots on his head from skin grafts. I am a promotional model and still turn heads at 33. When we are together in public I try to make up for all those stares by holding his hand and showing public affection. You can see the thoughts going through peoples heads, \"What the heck is she doing with him?\" I keep pre-cancer pics around the house to remind me of how hot he is. There were times during treatments that he treated me like a good for nothing worthless piece of crap. I feared that if I left him God would punish me the same way if not worse. We made it through though. Odds are I will probably out live him, but the experience has taught me so much. So keep your chin up cause I\’ll be single one day, LOL! Don\’t give up and know that there are still \"good people\" around.
When I take a good look at my boyfriend he is far from attractive! He feels the same way. However,I don\’t see his face like most people. It\’s normal like it is in all the pics. He was a looker when we started dating. Being with him has made me the most beautiful woman alive because everyone can see my inner beauty too!

By: elena

elena — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 05:47:54 +0000

I feel same way. I was “beautiful” and athletic bdy and after a parasite I aquired rare disorders that affect body and face. I’m the same person in a changing bdy and am so depressed that I’ll never find someone that will get to know me…it’s like I died. I’m funny, smart etc. I wld totally look deeper if I knew u and we got along So there are people out there in similar shoes that wld too

By: cassandrawels

cassandrawels — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 13:43:53 +0000

I dont think that it is all about looks. If you are a good guy the girl that is meant for you will see that. I beleive that there is someone made for everyone so yes you will just keep faith and who cares what people say or think they are mean because they feel bad themselves and they think it might make them feel better to dog on someone else.

By: Green PANSY

Green PANSY — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 13:43:53 +0000

One, day, you will. Everyone has some kind of person out there

By: kimberly11976

kimberly11976 — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 13:43:53 +0000

I’m so sorry….people are ignorant. I hope you find someone to love you for who you are and not what is superficial……good luck hun.