My boyfriends ex wants to get back together with him! Its driving me crazy!!! ERRRR?
Long story but totally worth it!
My boyfriends ex girlfriend wants to get back together with him AGAIN!!!! They also have a child together but have been on again off again since he was born. They have recently been broken up for a year and a half and this time it was because she cheated on him. She has taken him to court several times for custody and a few other times for some non-sense that was throw out.
We have been together for almost a year now and she’s known that we’ve been seeing each other but just until recently (past couple months) he and I have made it become more serious and we both love each other (awww, isn’t love grand! hehe) and low and behold, a few weeks ago she called him and told him that she still loved him and wants him back and that she wants him to think about it. He told me that she called him and i value that he was honest and that makes me trust him.
I havn’t brought it up since he told me because I am secure in our relationship but she keeps texting him and what have you and I’m starting to get ******* irritated as hell!!!! Example: They talk on the phone about their child etc..etc.. and he talks to her in front of me and its no problem, but he’ll drop their son off to her and moments later he gets a text from her about how she loves him and how she knows he still loves her blah blah blah. Or she’ll call him at like 3am or text him! He is not in love with her nor does he have any type of love for her besides being the mother of his child. and they both know that every time they’ve "tried to work it out" it never worked….so whats the freakin deal here? Why can’t she move on like an adult its been how many attempts and how many years? She also called and asked all these personal questions about me and him, like if I get him off and if we have good sex etc…hello grow up??? I can’t even amagine asking questions like that to my ex ( i have a child too and I have moved on, and I did it with grace thank you very much) Geezzzz!
Should I stop ignoring it and tell him how I feel? And whats her deal? Is she just testing him or does she only love him and want him back when he’s in a great, loving, healthy, relationship and its not with her….I just want her to back off….but I understand they have a kid together etc…but uhhh errrr I just need some advise PAH-LEASE! Thanks! BTW I am 27 he is 28….and she’s 33.
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Boyfriend-Girlfriend? Can’t answer.
If you said "husband or wife", I would.
Sounds like HS issues to me.
This goes in the singles and dating area
You should find a new man. Don’t you feel you deserve more? It takes two to tangle. It isn’t only the ex causing problems.
Unless you like drama, find someone new.
I don’t think his ex girlfriend will change and she will be around forever because of their child. It’s your life and if you want to continue the relationship that’s your decision. I know you love your boyfriend but think about how the drama will effect your child. I know I couldn’t handle the drama and I’m an adult.
O man do you got a problem.He is going to have to make a decision and heis going to have to tell her how it is.If hes just quiet and doesnt say nothing then thats when the red flags start going up.And if they have a child together its worse cause she has a reason to try and call him.You need to tell him how you feel HE IS THE ONE that is going to have to handle this problem.But be careful this might be warning signs.My niece was living with a married man and he told her he loved her but he was still seeing his wife and kids on the side and in the end he went with his wife…..(the mother of his children)Please be careful talk to him and think it through.
You could have summed this up in 3 sentences. As I was reading it I was thinking you must be 15.
Sorry got news for ya… no way this chic acts this way without being encouraged. You are the rebound relationship. His fire is still burning for her. And they got a kid. You have no chance of making this last.
you need to embarrass the sh¡t out of this woman and show her who’s the boss. not him and not her. your going to have to point out her childish actions WITH action.
drop of the child. drive away, get the txt message. grab the phone. drive back. put the phone in your hand and walk up to her, show her that you read every single message she sends and that you both have a great laugh at some of the childish things she writes. tell her how it’s so much fun and sometimes when she gets messages back from HIM it’s actually YOU playing with her. you need to devastate this woman so she moves on with her life and lets you both have yours. when you do this you need HIM to be right by your side laughing and smiling and backing you up 100% as the partner should. you need to then rub it in her face and say "see he’s with me and we are laughing at you, i can act childish and he will stand next to me. who is standing next to you? ow thats right you have no one, get over it"
this may drive her to the courts again but you know what, 1 more trip to the court, a few more month of pain, and the rest of your lives happy without her sluttish advances.
i know xactly how u feel im in a elationship and the ex should stay on the otherside of the ball field bec when were with family outings she will call my fiance and say can i come by and see my son when it isnt her weekend. n he doesnt acknowledge to tell me but i do kno this she aint gona last long bec i will stand up for myself ans take control n tell her to fuck off and if she
dont i kno she still loves him i will tell him that i will leave to better myself bec i dont need this bull**** in my life around my kids and he dont need that round his son.