Comments on: Tell me, is this psycho or smart? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: tinktink20 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/comment-page-1/#comment-6749 tinktink20 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 21:40:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/#comment-6749 Go for it!!! Even if it doesn't work out for some reason and you decide to get a different dress, it was only $120 so no big deal. On the other hand, if you still love it in 2 years, you got a total bargain! Go for it!!! Even if it doesn’t work out for some reason and you decide to get a different dress, it was only $120 so no big deal. On the other hand, if you still love it in 2 years, you got a total bargain!

]]> By: hollybee http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/comment-page-1/#comment-6750 hollybee Fri, 09 Oct 2009 21:40:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/#comment-6750 My fiance and I knew we were going to get married long before we were actually engaged, so I started picking up things and buying decor for my wedding the whole year prior. We were engaged in April and are getting married in October, and let me say it has saved tons of money since I'm not doing it all at the same time...less stress as well! As far as your wedding gown goes, I'm not sure I would advise you to get it now if you know you'll be waiting another 2 years. Styles and tastes can change, as well as weight and preference...you may end up not wanting to be married on the beach in a couple of years, so just take all of that into consideration. However with me, I have always had the same taste and never swayed from it......what I wanted 2 years ago I'm still doing now, so it's really just a matter of determining the outcome and how set on this dress you are! Best wishes!! And congrats! :) My fiance and I knew we were going to get married long before we were actually engaged, so I started picking up things and buying decor for my wedding the whole year prior. We were engaged in April and are getting married in October, and let me say it has saved tons of money since I’m not doing it all at the same time…less stress as well!

As far as your wedding gown goes, I’m not sure I would advise you to get it now if you know you’ll be waiting another 2 years. Styles and tastes can change, as well as weight and preference…you may end up not wanting to be married on the beach in a couple of years, so just take all of that into consideration.

However with me, I have always had the same taste and never swayed from it……what I wanted 2 years ago I’m still doing now, so it’s really just a matter of determining the outcome and how set on this dress you are! Best wishes!! And congrats! :)

]]> By: Chiky http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/comment-page-1/#comment-6751 Chiky Fri, 09 Oct 2009 21:40:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/#comment-6751 I know it sounds like a deal you can't pass up, but here's the deal: 1- you don't want to curse yourself by buying a dress before you've been proposed to. ANYTHING could happen between now and then. Your wedding may be 2 years away! 2- You might find a WAY more perfect dress later. If you buy one now, you'll feel stuck to this dress and not have the freedom to look or buy a (possibly) better dress later. 3- You can always take a picture of a dress to a REALLY GREAT seamstress and have the dress made later if you can't find it any more... OR if your dress is by a popular, mass-producing designer, you should be able to find it later. Besides, maybe you can give the money you would spend on the dress to him to help him get your ring! Ok, maybe not, but don't drive yourself crazy over a dress before you explore your options. If it's $120... it's a pretty good deal though... maybe you should get it... if you don't use THAT dress, you can always make money on it later. But make sure the dress dosn't age or turn yellow while you store it away for 2 years. Good luck! I know it sounds like a deal you can’t pass up, but here’s the deal:

1- you don’t want to curse yourself by buying a dress before you’ve been proposed to. ANYTHING could happen between now and then. Your wedding may be 2 years away!
2- You might find a WAY more perfect dress later. If you buy one now, you’ll feel stuck to this dress and not have the freedom to look or buy a (possibly) better dress later.
3- You can always take a picture of a dress to a REALLY GREAT seamstress and have the dress made later if you can’t find it any more… OR if your dress is by a popular, mass-producing designer, you should be able to find it later.

Besides, maybe you can give the money you would spend on the dress to him to help him get your ring! Ok, maybe not, but don’t drive yourself crazy over a dress before you explore your options.

If it’s $120… it’s a pretty good deal though… maybe you should get it… if you don’t use THAT dress, you can always make money on it later. But make sure the dress dosn’t age or turn yellow while you store it away for 2 years.

Good luck!

]]> By: hapi82 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/comment-page-1/#comment-6752 hapi82 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 21:40:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/#comment-6752 I don't know, maybe I'm just superstitious, but I wouldn't want to buy the dress before being asked. I wouldn't want to jynx anything. You know, like when people are expecting a baby, they usually don't do the nursery until the end. Similarly, I'd rather start putting money aside now and save up for a dress to buy later. Besides, what if by the time you get married, you find another dream dress that you like better. Plus, white dresses have a tendency to get yellow...so you'd probably still have to pay some money to preserve it. I dunno, but then again, if you REALLY do love it...then get it. However, don't just get it because you like it and the price is great. Get it only because you LOVE it. Ask youself this question...if the dress was $600, would you still want to get it now. If the answer is yes, then ok, get it. But, if the answer is no, then this isn't really your dream dress and u're just getting too caught up over the bargain price. Good luck! I don’t know, maybe I’m just superstitious, but I wouldn’t want to buy the dress before being asked. I wouldn’t want to jynx anything. You know, like when people are expecting a baby, they usually don’t do the nursery until the end. Similarly, I’d rather start putting money aside now and save up for a dress to buy later. Besides, what if by the time you get married, you find another dream dress that you like better. Plus, white dresses have a tendency to get yellow…so you’d probably still have to pay some money to preserve it. I dunno, but then again, if you REALLY do love it…then get it. However, don’t just get it because you like it and the price is great. Get it only because you LOVE it. Ask youself this question…if the dress was $600, would you still want to get it now. If the answer is yes, then ok, get it. But, if the answer is no, then this isn’t really your dream dress and u’re just getting too caught up over the bargain price. Good luck!

]]> By: sunflower16 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/comment-page-1/#comment-6753 sunflower16 Fri, 09 Oct 2009 21:40:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1684/tell-me-is-this-psycho-or-smart/#comment-6753 Have you talked to your boyfriend about it yet? If you two have decided you're getting married, shopped for rings, and discussed details of the wedding, I don't see why you shouldn't discuss this with him as well. If he thinks it's a good idea (especially considering the price), then go ahead. Like some of the others have said, 2 years is a long time, and it may no longer be "exactly what you want" when the wedding is closer. However, if it's only $120, it wouldn't be that big of a deal to sell it and buy a different dress. Just one more thing to consider......if you guys aren't engaged yet, and you just happened to find this dress, I'm guessing you haven't spent alot of time trying on different styles (or at least I hope you haven't). I would be cautious of buying the first dress you like, because you never know how other styles may look on you until you try them on. Just something to think about! Have you talked to your boyfriend about it yet? If you two have decided you’re getting married, shopped for rings, and discussed details of the wedding, I don’t see why you shouldn’t discuss this with him as well. If he thinks it’s a good idea (especially considering the price), then go ahead.

Like some of the others have said, 2 years is a long time, and it may no longer be "exactly what you want" when the wedding is closer. However, if it’s only $120, it wouldn’t be that big of a deal to sell it and buy a different dress.

Just one more thing to consider……if you guys aren’t engaged yet, and you just happened to find this dress, I’m guessing you haven’t spent alot of time trying on different styles (or at least I hope you haven’t). I would be cautious of buying the first dress you like, because you never know how other styles may look on you until you try them on. Just something to think about!

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