What are the signs your Ex-Gf wants you back?
My gf now Ex have been together for almost 3 years, we broke up 2.5 weeks ago while we were on vacation in NY after a fight..we broke up before but always got back together…We kept in contact and saw each other as usual since then, up until a couple days ago I stopped all contact with her and she still calls me every night to talk for hours and calls me during the day also..We had a serious but fun relationship, we were always there for each other, she lived with me, we traveled at least 3-4 times a year together and went to parties etc…our relationship was fun…
But recently she said she became unhappy because she feels like she doent contribute to our relationship..I’m in a more financially stable situation and have no trouble taking care of the two of us..she says she doesnt want to be in a relationship right now and she wants to get her act together and we need time apart..(she always said this when we broke up before) and neither one of us ever cheated on each other even when we took time apart..We both love each other and are best friends..She recently started saying she has been thinking about kids and marriage in the future..I was going to propose but we both arent ready for that…She’s a good girl and I treat her like a princess…
Now are these signs she is coming around??
back when we broke up before it took some work on my part for us to get back in good terms, but this time I’m choosing not to do anything because she plays these games too much and after a while I realize I can live without her, but I actually want to be with her..I told her before that we are meant for each other and she said she knows…I can’t even muster up the will power to go find another girl,sleep with her etc.. because I don’t want to and I can’t…I guess I’m still in love with her.
What do you think?
we are both in our mid twenties
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I THINK U NEED TO HAVE HER OVER AN TALK TO HER SERIOUSLY ! U BOTH NEED TO SAY HOW U FEEL AN THEN IF SHE STILL WANTS TO BE ALONE THEN JUST TELL HER THE PHONE CALLS AN EMAILS ECT.. NEED TO STOP . TELL HER YOUR GOING TO START DATING AN TRYING TO FIND A WOMEN THAT WHATS WHAT U DO . SOMETIMES THIS WILL TURN A WOMEN AROUND BECAUSE SHE WILL GET JELIOUS ! BUT IF SHE SAYS OK AN GOOD LUCK THEN MAN GO FIND U SOMEONE ! LIFE IS TO SHORT !
hanging with u all the time calling u talking to u and just giver her some weed and booze and ur good to go
pretty obvious ur not over each other but i need to let her know her u stand that ur not ready for the games right now its hard for u to accept her as a friend and what problems she have ur there for her i mean if money is the problem but u support her i dont see whats her problem
Ah your relationship sounds really nice
Can you not work through her problems together? Surely you don’t need to be apart to do that, that is after all what relationships are about. Maybe you should back off supporting you both financially and let her put more in if she can. Or perhaps you just need to be together but not live together. That way she will feel she is less reliant on you and gives her mlore of a chance to stand on her own two feet.
Well I think the big question is are you willing to wait for her to sort herself out? Is she "into you" enough? Because a woman can also just not be that into a guy. And if you are treating her like a princess, then she should act accordingly. And if she is playing games and manipulating you then what will you do when you are married? You might also decide to seek marriage counselling to help you deal with the issues that led to your previous break ups.
Another key issue is ensuring that what you want out of the relationship is matched by what she is giving you. Take some time out, possibly give her an ultimatum,and state your commitment, letting her know no more fun and games. You deserve some clarity and greater stability.
if you guys are constantly breaking up like crazy, then there is a problem that has been left unresolved. you both need to come to terms with it, and be fair about it, and agree on something. try marriage, or couple’s counseling, if that doesn’t help, then i don’t know what to tell you.
as far as her wanting you back, you’d know cause she will try to talk to you, and get close to you and stuff. if she doesn’t want you. you’ll go through a period of time where "she won’t communicate", and you won’t hear from her in a long time. that just means, she’s planning something. good or bad, depends on the person, and what happened during the relationship. but sounds like she’s trying to better herself, which is a good thing.
let her know that you’ll always support her with that.
that should make things, open.