Should i seek revenge on my ex boyfriend after sending me nude pictures of my best friend?
Me and my boyfriend had been together for 10 months when he left for missouri with my best friend to go through AIT for the national guards. When he left we were perfectly happy, and everything was fine. We both agreed we would stay together for the 3 months he would be gone, and both we ok with a short long distance. Two weeks into him being gone i open my e-mail to find a naked picture spread eagle over a bowling alley tiolet of my best friend sent to me from my boyfriends cell phone. i talked to him the next day about it because he only got his phone on certain nights depending on his physical trainings. i asked him instantly about the picture, and he had no idea what i was talking about. aparently when they have personal time they have to use the buddy system and decided because it was legal to drink on base, because they are both 18, to get drunk together, then meet up with others at the bowling alley. he says he doesnt remember sending me them, and i called everything off. he continues to call me and talks to my family as if nothing happened (none of my family know what he did), and tries to make me feel guilty for calling things off. he wants to go on a date when he gets back (Oct. 31st). ive told him repetedly that i want nothing to do with him, and he isnt listening at all. i was wondering if i should give him another chance, ignore him, or try to get him to back off by getting revenge and making him see how messed up what he did was?
i did talk to my friedn, and she started crying and apologizing to me about what happeend. i flat out asked her what happened and she said we had sex but its not like that between them, it was a one time thing, and it would never happen again.
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could your best friend have taken the picture from his phone and then just deleted it so he didnt know? Maybe let him try to explain but I guess if you want revenge send him a picture of another guy on your bed or something like that.
I would just get rid of him then, whats stopping him from going out again and getting drunk with someone else. If you cant trust him you dont have anything really anymore.
I think before you do anything you should talk to your best Friend to see what happened….maybe somebody took his phone and took them and they got accidental sent to you (long shot i know but it could happen) I don’t think you should do any kind of revenge on him..maybe it was something that happened harmlessly….you need to talk to your friend about all this before you jump into anything.
–lyssie
I have heard of people blacking out and not remembering what they did the next day. The problem is that he had to still be awake while he was doing it, and he should have known better.
I suggest that you do not take him back. What he did was wrong and I think he knew that when he was doing it. And your best friend knew what she was doing too so you should get a knew one of those too.
The only revenge you should take on either of them is to end both relationships forever and never look back.
Don’t be stupid! HE CHEATED ON YOU! Again, HE CHEATED ON YOU! That right there is enough to never speak to him again, but he cheated with YOUR BEST FRIEND! Hello, once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater. DON’T TAKE HIM BACK…Never speak to him again. You don’t need that trash in your life. Move on and find yourself a good man!