how do you get your wife to fall in love with you all over again?
me and my wife have been going through some ups and down and I want to try one last time to make this work. what are some tips to help me get her to fall in love with me all over.
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What did you do to make her fall out of love with you?
Can it be undone?
Be the man you were when she first fell in love with you.
do somthing romantic like reread your vowse or take her to the place where you had your honeymoon
how did you win her heart in the first place?
answer that then you have what you should do.
listen to her, talk to her, do things together, have great sex, send her emails and call her when you are gone, there are a million good books out to help you.
If your old tricks don’t work, not much else can be done.
romance her like you did when you first got together,
VACATION….
and not some place wear there will be hot women around..go to the mountains or something like that…seriously, some place secluded and romantic.
Do for her all the things you did to get her. Remind her of why she said yes to you to begin with.
I noticed a while ago that my attitude had changed towards my wife, negatively. I no longer did things that I used to enjoy doing.
When I was at home, my wife couldn’t get me to detour and pick up something at the store for her that would’ve delayed me 10 minutes. I had the attitude that she forgot it, she should go back and get it.
Now that I’m 10 hours away from her and have time to think about all the things we’d been through, I appreciate her. About 12 weeks ago, I posted something on Facebook that really hit home with me and many other guys out there that had my same mindset.
"Love is after working 12 hours, driving another 10 just to spend one night with the woman that makes your world go round." (I stay up 22 hours straight before I get to lay in the bed.)
Before I wouldn’t drive 10 minutes, now I’ll drive 10 hours because that’s how much she means to me. Think about it.
Romance! Whether you remember it or not, you were probably VERY romantic when you were courting your wife. Try to recall what you were thinking back then, and WHY.
Obviously, your desire was to have this woman come to live and stay with you, right? And how did you treat her then, in order to fulfill your desire? And how do you treat her now? Is there a difference?
I’m not trying to make you feel bad — I’m just trying to show you how to THINK in order to win her love again.
Do the little things that you did in the beginning to get her. There were down times with my hubby but when things got to the point where I just was tired of being unhappy, he turned things up. He took me out on dates. He bought me little things that he knew I wanted. Candlelight dinners and walks at the park. All the things he did to get me he started to do again. And now that things are better he makes sure that he continues to do those things. Bubble baths, breakfast in bed, massages just do things for her and avoid the arguments over little things. Let it go and agree to disagree. Sometimes it isn’t about being right.
You can’t use tricks, tips or magic beans.
You have to be yourself, be willing to compromise and go from there. If she, YOUR WIFE, needs to "fall back in love with you" you have a majooooor problem my friend.
first clear up those marital problems, hammer them out until they are no longer an issue. Sometimes a simple "I’m sorry" or " I love you honey"clears up a lot of marital static. Romancing away unsettle situations is not the answer.
Become attractive to other women.
It’s not that easy. but you can try by going out on dates. When you are married, it is easy to get stuck in a rut. You wake up, go to work, come home, dinner, watch tv, go to bed and start all over again. Every once in a while you should go out on dates which mean she get all dressed up like she used o when you two were dating. Go to a movie, or try a new place to eat. Don’t have money, then YOU pack a picnic basket with her favorite and find a park with activities going on. bring games, or just talk and people watch.
Try remember what you two used to do. remind each other why you two loved each other in the first place.
Don’t date once in a while, try do it at least two or three times a month. Even if it is having date nite at home. Like rent some romance and comedy movies and pop some popcorn, favorite drink or get subway or pizza and cuddle on the couch. Or make dinner with candles all over the room. Draw her a bubble bath and give her a massage afterwards.
Reason I say all this is because often times, it’s the women making plans and going out of their way to create a nice night out or in. For a change, you make the plans.
I’m not married but my mom get’s p)ssy over petty crap and I always come up behind her while she’s in the kitchen and wrap my arms around her waste and give her a hug sometimes a kiss and it softens her up agian then she’s better.
It might be too late, I’m sorry to hear about this. I know what it can feel like to loose a loved one. But something that can try to do, is uppen your sexyness torwards her… its worth a shot.
Go back to when you were first dating and think of what you did or said to her. Women like romance – so brush up on your skills.
take her on a date, but take her to the place where you had your first date.
its the thrill of the chase that made you fall in love with her in the first place. what did she do to get your attention then. what did you do for her to that she thought you were worthy of her attention? i was just telling someone that the biggest problem in marriage is that women want men to be more like them and vice versa. man and women don’t know their roles in a marriage. we were made as men and women for a very specific reason. 1st, find out what your role is as a husband. and do it. 2. put her needs and wants above yours. but that does not mean lose your back bone. too many women wear the pants. woman do so because they don’t trust that the man knows whats best for the family. the women don’t back off enough to let the man lead them. its because women want security. they know how they want it done and that the way they do it will produce the results they want. in short, women are too afraid to let men do their job as men, as a husband. it takes giving up a huge part of who they are. they dont want to give that much of their heart and lives to someone. men have the wisdom they need for life, but sense men don’t do it like women, women just do it and take on more then they are supposed to. then that family cant operate like it is supposed to. in harmony. women , deep down want men to take up the role men are supposed to. men are supposed to love a woman, not control. men are to lead their family to safe places emotionally, physically, mentally, spiritually, and financially. and sense most men dont know how to, women do it. and when men wont do their job, the woman sees it needs to be done and she takes on two roles, hers and yours. the best thing you can do for your wife, is learn your role and take it back from her, dont be too lazy or passive. and i do mean take it. take it off her shoulders bc you love her. if you went on a 20 mile hike thru mountains and your packs you carried were 50 pounds, would you make her carry yours as well as hers? thats what men do in life. take your pack off her back. NOT to control her, but bc you love her enough to free her from a burden thats not hers to carry. learn your role. watch things change.
the trick is, to not give her a chance to fall outta love with you in the first place…
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