How can I get my wife to fall in love with me again?
My wife said that she was not in love with me anymore but she still love me and she wanted a divorce. I work overseas and she said that before she sign the papers for divorce she said that she will wait to see what happens between us. I will be home Sunday and we will see what happens then. What happen was I told my wife that I wanted a divorce but then I was not serious about it and I regret it big time. Is there anyway I can get her to change her mind or is it already to late.
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I’d suggest you meet & have a serious discussion regarding EVERYTHING. Just be honest above all & get the real truth out. IF you find it’s worth working on, being worked out, then it sure is worth the try. But above all, be HONEST & just see if you both can overcome ALL obstacles & can work them out in time. I’m sure NO ONE wants to break up their marriage if they have any kind of a chance of ‘repairing" it in any/all wats,,, the best to you…:)
It really depends on if she has already moved on with someone else or if she has already done something that she doesn’t think you can forgive her for if it ever came out.
If when you come home, you can spend time TALKING (not sexing) to each other and getting to know each other again, you may have a shot. You want to get everything on the table so that you each know where you stand emotionally. There is a reason you wanted a divorce first and there is a reason that she decided she isn’t in love with you anymore. Find out what those reasons are specifically.
This is not about changing your wife’s mind. It’s really about having a relationship with a woman you’ve made a committment to for life.
There’s a pretty good movie that may bridge the gap between the two of you. It’s called, "Fireproof". I suggest you rent it and watch it with her.
See if either of you are willing to try again and talk about your problems. If you have faults she is having a hard time adjusting to then you need to address these–not only because she has problems with them but because you’ll eventually have to face the very same issues in another relationship.
Hopefully, you can ask her for a second chance and apologize for every saying the "D" word. Tell her that you regret having spoken out of your hurt and that you’re very much wanting to work on your relationship with her.
May God Bless You as you seek to fulfill His will for your life.
Becky
Why did you want to divorce her? Maybe she feels you don’t love her. When you come home you both need to talk this out.
Sweetheart, when you get home Sunday and you see your wife. Have like a nice teddy bear (with ur cologne sprayed on it) along with a single rose and a card. You may have to go back to your dating days with your wife. Remember how you got her attention when you two were dating??
Main thing is not to come on too strong. Right now, your marriage is missing the passion and attention of one another. Spend as much time together as possible. Rent movie – play board games – sip on wine – etc.,
You have to be that man again she fell in love with when you two were dating. Just don’t feel that just because you married her that you have to stop the things you were doing before you got married.
Oh and eat her out!! You will win all the time with that one!! lol lol
why you told her about getting a divorce?? that was dumb.
i think that to make her fall in love again you should be romantic and do what she likes you to do to her like getting her flowers or a romantic dinner at a nice restaurant, stuff like that spice up the relationship.
my husband is in iraq and said the same thing, if you or he wants it then bring it on, we women take words seriously, you will have to be with her before you can tell if its too late.
oh my god!
why did u say that ?
anyways, maybe it came 4 ur own good.. u know she feels know that if she is asking 4 divorce then u 2 r asking 4 it..
BUT AGAIN OH MY GOD!
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and follow all the steps necessary to bring her back- u were back and in love before and who knows MAYBE SHE JUST SAID THAT SHE WANTS DIVORCE FOR THE SAME SILLY REASON U HAD THAT MADE U TELL HER U R ASKING 4 DIVORCE 2 !!
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