What do you do to get your wife of 21 years to love you again?
In late November my wife announced, out of the blue, that she does not love me anymore. She is planning to move out in Mid March. Our 11 year old straight A daughter, like my self, thought everything was fine in our home. My wife finnishes school in May with a degree as a Rad Tech / Xray. We have been together for 21 years. She will be 43 in July and I turned 53 on Christmas Day. She is very beautiful and i remain very fit and healthy. When we met she was only 20 and had a 5 year old son that I raised from that point with her. He lives in Las Vegas. He is so upset that he is moving home to Ohio and wants to move in with me. My wife will not agree to conceling and will only say that she wants out. There are many things that I could and would do differently if she would stay but I can think of nothing that rises to the level of wanting to break up our family and marriage. Help!
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I know you are probably hurting right now but from what you said I think the best thing to do is to let her go because she doesn’t sound like she deserves you to me. The fact that you are making such an effort and she seems that apathetic suggests you can do better for yourself. I know that isn’t what you want to hear but you can’t make someone love you.
Goggle "Light Her Fire" It works.
Then do some more work. Some more reading! Educate yourself. Good luck!
Get yourself and your daughter some counseling you both need it. You cannot control your wife or herr decisions. All you really can do is talk and write her notes and letters and cards, tell her how you feel, remind her of the fun things you did together in the past. Compliment her a lot, help her around the house A LOT, and take her away on a romantic vacation or a marriage retreat.