How to get your ex-boyfriend back, when he hates you?
Ok, so my boyfriend broke up with me because I couldn’t trust him and always freaked out when he talked to other girls. I know, I’m psycho. But I’ve changed. So at a game, I got drunk. And I told him I hated him, slapped him, and told him that his "package" was small and crooked. But I was drunk! I made a huge mistake, and I regret it so much.
So I want him back, but he hates me. So please help me, I’m in love with him. How do I get him back?
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Leave him alone, can’t make somebody take you back if they want nothing to do with you. leave him alone, learn a lesson and move on.
if he hates you then why do you want him back
retard
You don’t. If you truly have changed then you need a different BF to go along with the new you. Prove you have changed by treating him and yourself in this new manner. By scheming to get him back you are just showing that you haven’t really changed at all. Show that you really do love him by respecting his wishes and wanting the best for him. Wish him well and move on.
Try to approach the matter in the right way. Don’t get disheartened. Plan ur ways and execute it such that u can again get on with the relation. people have succeeded and with the right approach u might succeed too.
There are some resources like this which can help u get back ur ex.
http://www.get-your-ex-back.info
i have The SAMMEE problemm. exceptidk y he hates mee.
alright , i think you should show how how much you want him back . maybe get him a present , or tell him how much you like or love him . prove to him that your very sorry , and it won’t happen again . simple .
See im in the same situation.My ex-boyfriend Ryan, i thought he cheated on me. It turns out it was just a rumur. And i learned never to listen to other people. Anyways, After that i had still felt very times 1,000,000,000 feelings for him. And now i told him my mistake and he hates me so much. I dont think ill ever be able to get over it or forget about it but im gonna have to some day, i cant just live my life crying and crying time after time. So you might just have to move on and leave your feelings for that man behind.
i hurt my boyfriend (not physically) and he put up with it 4 times…i didnt even know how much he was hurt …im in love with him and he doesnt believe im sorry and have changed …i still cant get him back he still needs time after soo long and he said he might not even forgive me soo :\ x dont get your hopes up..
my boyfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago, i pretended that that was what i wanted and then i realized i was in LOVE with him…so i got a bunch of my friends and the were mean to him to make him feel bad…no i hate myself for that and he will never want me back, i even forced myself to go out with this random guy to get my ex jealos. and now i dont know wat to do and how to get him back ii really loved him and i cried for hours..what do i do????
I was going out with this guy and i liked him a lot, we can call him guy 1, but before i went out with him i was going out with this other guy, we can nick name him guy 2. The guy 2 was making up rumors about me and him doing stuff that we weren’t so i broke up with him because everyone started calling me a slut. When i broke up with him and started going out with guy 1 everyone realized that he was lying and that i wasn’t a slut. But the fact that i broke up with guy 2 and moved on so fast to guy 1 made guy 2 mad. So guy 2 also “moved on” to someone who i thought was my best friend but in reality she hated me for going out with guy 2 in the first place because even though she told me she hated him she actually like guys 2 a lot. But anyways guy 2 used my friend and then started making up rumors that i cheated on guy 1 with him. By the time Guy 1 hear this i had already broken up with him because he wanted to kiss me at a varsity game but he was moving to fast ( btw i’m 14) so guy 1 who promised me before we went out that we would be friends no mater what happens between us hates me and he some how got all his friends to hate me to. I went from the most popular girl in school and losing someone i really like to being a total no body all because of guy 2 making up untrue rumors. Why is it that the people that lie and cheat get away with it and the truthful people don’t? I want to make guy number to feel the same pain as me but idk how… and i don’t know if i should because i’m not really a mean person. I need help. and i know some people might say ” if they were my real friends they wouldn’t have left in the first place” but they heard the rumors and believed them and thats just how my school works, except for a few of my friends stayed by my side and knew that guy 2 was a liar. I need guy 1 back because if i get him back then i will get all my friends back because guy 1 is kinda like the coolest guy in our grade. I need help. ill do anything to get him back.
I have a really confusing story. First I would like to start out with I am 13 years old. There is this guy I like and we started to date. after a while I started to get jealous of every girl that talked to him I have told him I changed and he does not believe me and I think how does he know if i changed if he does not try to see if I really changed. he got tired of that and broke up with me by text message about a year ago. The truth is my best friend was the one that was texting him. apparently she said something very ofencive and he still to this day thinks I said it. Now he hates me. I do not know what to do. I love him a whole lot and it seams like i have tried everything. I even bought him a present and all he did was tear up the note and throw the present away. I need help… I want him back so bad and i would do anything for him. (he calls that obsession and I konw its not… it is just love) please help me.
I was kind of in the same thing i went out with this guy and there is no way i could love him more than i thought by calling him to much and texting him to much. turns out he was a total jerk he never liked me but i loved him so this is my advice……
Get your friends to ask him what he thinks of you and tell your friends to tell him that he has changed and you regret it
I went out with a guy that liked me for a month it was alright then he said to me that he can’t be with me because he has problems i didnt do anything to him then it turns out that he hates me dont know what to do i really really like him
Heres what you do if you want your ex back: if you see him every and try to talk to him alot, stop. just leave him alone, never talk to him, and cut all ties with him. then he will see how much he misses you. oh and btw, flirt with other guys. dont turn around to see i hes watching. and flirt with them all the time, not just in front of him. maybe this will work. good luck
Bailey… good advise:) I’m going to try thay:D
hey my ex hates my guts
My ex hates my guts because I was controlling the relationship but now im actually different but he doesnt act like he wants to be friends and he doesnt believe anything I say,but I want to prove myself to him but he wont even lok at me and,my other friend is close to him and he tells her how sometimes he misses me but we always fight but that was because of me controlling things,now I dont know what to do and I really want him back,but he womt even wanna listen to me
To all the ladies that commented….not to sound harsh. But just let it go. If someone really wants to be with you then he will. Otherwise he wont be a faithful good guy to you….trust me …i know. You “love” him sooo much. But you will move on when you find a different boy. Dont waste time on him when he doesnt waste time on you. ……and dont try the whole “lets be friends” thing. Ohhhhh trust me…guys dont care….at all. They dont wanna be your friend. Ecspecially if your in highschool and if your are friends…your feelings will just come back cuz youll see them all the time and hangout with them as “friends” and then youll hookup…but only as “friends”. Then the whole thing will start back over. Ive been through it all. It blows.
I used to be very much in the same situation, with the whole jealousy issue, and I will not EVEN go into the entire dramatic story of what happened with him and other people, but all I can say is that people make mistakes. If he can’t see that you are sorry, and he can’t forgive you and isn’t willing to put forth as much effort as you are, then he really isn’t worth it. I know that you probably do love him, and it seems like you might never find anyone else where you will feel the same as you do for him, i promise you will. the right person for you just hasn’t come along yet, and trust me, it was NOT him. a man that is right for you will take all the good sides of you with the bad and still love you in the end. remember the quote “if you can’t handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don’t deserve me at my best” and that is entirely true when it comes to love. a man who really loves you, will love you regardless. never sell yourself out to get the love of a man, because even when you’re all sold out, you still won’t get it. you shouldn’t have to sell yourself out in the first place to get a man’s love because if you do, then it is not real love. i promise. like the person above said, don’t waste your time on somebody that won’t waste their time on you, cause you are the one who will get hurt in the end, not them. it’s a touchy, hurtful thing to go through, but the sooner you realize that it just isn’t meant to be and that you are worthy of someone else and will find someone else, the sooner you can move on with your life and find happiness. you deserve the right person for you and that loves you for WHO YOU ARE even with the flaws and mistakes, and if he can’t accept that you have flaws and make mistakes as well, then he isn’t worth it. good luck honey!