Comments on: I am a complete and total failure. I’m losing the love of my life. What can I do? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/ Your guide to getting your ex lover back into your arms Mon, 15 Mar 2010 10:05:29 +0100 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: emily http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-10367 emily Fri, 27 Nov 2009 06:14:45 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/#comment-10367 the most important thing you need to do right now is make friends I know its hard. trust me I do. but its what you need right now. you need to develop a healthy outlet that doesn't rely on her. It sounds to me like she likes to go out and have a good time because she has to take the responsibility of your insecurity. I'm not saying that you are the reason why she drinks too much but what you are doing is smothering her. give her some space and let her come to you. I know you aid that you don't have money but try to join a club or a group. Even if its something that you don't think you will like...example....a book club. If you want the love you once had your not going to get it by just waiting around for her. You need to strong. the most important thing you need to do right now is make friends I know its hard. trust me I do. but its what you need right now. you need to develop a healthy outlet that doesn’t rely on her. It sounds to me like she likes to go out and have a good time because she has to take the responsibility of your insecurity. I’m not saying that you are the reason why she drinks too much but what you are doing is smothering her. give her some space and let her come to you. I know you aid that you don’t have money but try to join a club or a group. Even if its something that you don’t think you will like…example….a book club. If you want the love you once had your not going to get it by just waiting around for her. You need to strong.

]]> By: Ritika http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-8250 Ritika Wed, 28 Oct 2009 17:41:08 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/#comment-8250 hi just read your post, may be its quite later than u actually posted ur blog..reading it almost drowned my heart..but lemme tell you...feeling and constantly telling yourself that ur a loser would make u behave like a loser too..what happened with u..no wonder is terrible..n m all sympathies for you..but u need 2 remember that you have ur son to take care of..believe in yourslf n start looking for some better jobs..there r plenty of resources n better still..the economy is coming out of the bad phase it was undergoing...n luk here v have a point!!if the economy can recover..i think u can give it a try too..aint it??i bet you can..forgetting things can be tad difficult..but try finding happiness in things you otherwise wouldnt notice..try taking your son out more often ..indulge in ports with him..play with him..take him for picnics..u cud probably haave a fun time cooking with him..kids rlly like doing things in kitchen...all u need 2 do is..try changin ur perspective a bit...u cant feel sorry about ur life...for how long will u do that???u knw that its not only ur girlfriend who wronged u..u have been at fault as well..worst still..she's probably over you..and finding a good point in it ..you can try dating again..believe me ...this world has an ample no: of females...not that just one out of all will b able to undrstand u ...its how "u" open up urself in front of the other..just try giving the other person a chance...I wish you all the best ..n i jut hope that instead of thinking about the bad things..u try concentrating on the gud things u can bring to ur life...the power to change ur life or making it happy..lies completely within you...all you have 2 do is..exploit it!! take care..god bless you... hi
just read your post, may be its quite later than u actually posted ur blog..reading it almost drowned my heart..but lemme tell you…feeling and constantly telling yourself that ur a loser would make u behave like a loser too..what happened with u..no wonder is terrible..n m all sympathies for you..but u need 2 remember that you have ur son to take care of..believe in yourslf n start looking for some better jobs..there r plenty of resources n better still..the economy is coming out of the bad phase it was undergoing…n luk here v have a point!!if the economy can recover..i think u can give it a try too..aint it??i bet you can..forgetting things can be tad difficult..but try finding happiness in things you otherwise wouldnt notice..try taking your son out more often ..indulge in ports with him..play with him..take him for picnics..u cud probably haave a fun time cooking with him..kids rlly like doing things in kitchen…all u need 2 do is..try changin ur perspective a bit…u cant feel sorry about ur life…for how long will u do that???u knw that its not only ur girlfriend who wronged u..u have been at fault as well..worst still..she’s probably over you..and finding a good point in it ..you can try dating again..believe me …this world has an ample no: of females…not that just one out of all will b able to undrstand u …its how “u” open up urself in front of the other..just try giving the other person a chance…I wish you all the best ..n i jut hope that instead of thinking about the bad things..u try concentrating on the gud things u can bring to ur life…the power to change ur life or making it happy..lies completely within you…all you have 2 do is..exploit it!! take care..god bless you…

]]> By: Ding-Ding http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-7413 Ding-Ding Sat, 17 Oct 2009 20:51:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/#comment-7413 That is a heavy emotional burden you are carrying there, hun. Did you receive treatment for your breakdown? You really need to lift the load a little. If you cannot afford therapy, try having a talk with your pastor, priest or other clergy. Your regular doctor can prescribe some mood lifters to help ease your depression. Sounds like she has a pretty bad addiction to alcohol. If you are thinking suicide, you absolutely must call a suicide hotline, now! They can help you find the help you need and probably at low or maybe no cost to you or your parents. Take care, hun. That is a heavy emotional burden you are carrying there, hun. Did you receive treatment for your breakdown? You really need to lift the load a little. If you cannot afford therapy, try having a talk with your pastor, priest or other clergy. Your regular doctor can prescribe some mood lifters to help ease your depression. Sounds like she has a pretty bad addiction to alcohol. If you are thinking suicide, you absolutely must call a suicide hotline, now! They can help you find the help you need and probably at low or maybe no cost to you or your parents.

Take care, hun.

]]> By: Cyb3r3l3ctr0 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-7414 Cyb3r3l3ctr0 Sat, 17 Oct 2009 20:51:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/#comment-7414 Man o man. Well I think everyone is talented in their own way and have special things they can do. Talk with a therapist, or, you can write down all your feelings on a piece of paper (kinda liek you did on the computer) and then rip and burn those papers somewhere, let your emotions out and find help. Don't take your life away, your son needs you. Man o man. Well I think everyone is talented in their own way and have special things they can do. Talk with a therapist, or, you can write down all your feelings on a piece of paper (kinda liek you did on the computer) and then rip and burn those papers somewhere, let your emotions out and find help. Don’t take your life away, your son needs you.

]]> By: Grandma in Ok. http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/comment-page-1/#comment-7415 Grandma in Ok. Sat, 17 Oct 2009 20:51:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1757/i-am-a-complete-and-total-failure-im-losing-the-love-of-my-life-what-can-i-do/#comment-7415 Young man, it sounds as if you have depression. I would suggest you see a doctor before you make any decessions, You must think of your child and both of your futures. If you are depressed they can help you get over it. So glad you are not into drinking and bars. I know you can accomplish your goals, it is never to late to turn your life around. Good luck to you. Grandma in Ok. Young man, it sounds as if you have depression. I would suggest you see a doctor before you make any decessions, You must think of your child and both of your futures. If you are depressed they can help you get over it. So glad you are not into drinking and bars. I know you can accomplish your goals, it is never to late to turn your life around. Good luck to you.
Grandma in Ok.

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