How do I save my marriage my husband wants to leave me?
We know longer sleep together because he likes to stay up until 4am with the lights on ( It’s been 2 months). I’m now sleeping in my daughter’s room with her. My husband isn’t her dad. To make a long story short my daughter’s grandfather (her dad’s dad) they just met for the first time. My daughter doesn’t see her dad because he’s a embarrassment to her and smokes and even assaulted me in front of her. My daughter hasn’t seen her father in many months before them meeting last weekend. I didn’t want to lie to my husband so I told him she’s meeting her grandad for the first time. He was upset, but got over it only if I were to call child support ( to get him to pay or go to jail) and visitation (He wants my daughter to have supervised visitation after her dad assaulted me 3 years ago) . After thinking I told him I can’t …… long story. He now wants a divorce and has been ignoring me, and pushing me off him for the past 4 days. How can I save my marriage I just wanted to do the right thing?
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It sounds like you may have gotten married without fixing the past issues. Maybe a divorce is good. Your child doesn’t need to be in such a tense environment and confusion around. Separate and then see what happens. If he wants the divorce let him.
You can’t blame him.You changed things after you got married. Not saying your wrong. I know your heart is in the right spot but why all of a sudden include the dad again? You husband has a point. If he abused you in front of baby then he should have monitored visits. And if you really want them to be in your child’s life then you don’t have to be. Get a court order.
How did the first marriage end?
I say couples counseling and if he won’t go-go by yourself.
If he becomes abusive then go. Get yourself a good attorney. Hopefully you can ’something’ out of this mess.
it sound like you both need to get some marriage counseling to deal with what really going on but it take two to want to work it out, hopefully he will come around…
I’m sure that he feels you’ve been pushed around by this jerk-off for far too long, and that he deserves no kind treatment from neither his wife nor his family (yes, it is his family, too). The fact that you lied about going to see him would have definitely infuriated him. It is not easy for a man to handle a family with children that aren’t his, and if he feels you are going behind his back and/or not having safety in mind, yeah, he may feel that he really doesn’t belong anywhere in that family.
You two need to have many long talks. Hopefully he’s willing.
i might not know how to save a marriage but you gotta do what you gotta do to save it, if you want to save it. im 21 and when i was little i couldnt see my father, and i grew up hatting my mother for it (not saying she will or anything). but a girl needs her father. im sure you want your daughter to see her dad, but to protect her i think it should be supervised visitation.
You guys need couseling
or
you was picking the losers to begin with but there is 2 sides to every story….
get a man that wants you if he doesn’t want you anymore then let it go