he broke my heart… will i ever fall in love again?
i really fell in love with him. i’m 22 years old and that was the first time in my life where i felt so lost and out of control. i can’t really describe it. i couldn’t sleep, i had a few anxiety attacks, and my heart was always beating like crazy everytime i see him.. i was really happy.
we started dating and everything went well. then a month later he told me that he has a girlfriend all this time… and he apologised.. that was the last time i talked to him
i couldn’t get over him. i was so upset.
i know i can move on. it’s easy for me to find someone to have a fling with…
but will i ever fall in love like that again?
or was that the end for me?
i feel so bitter now…
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You only dated for a month. Trust me, in a couple of years you won’t remember the loser’s name. And yes, you will definitely fall in love again. We all do.
Yes for sure.
hearTbreak is jusT for a while..u jusT goTa believe in yourself and don’T lose hope..iTs gona hurT for a bit but you’ll geT thru iT..and yes you can fall in love again..much more than daT..jusT have faiTh
dont worry.. you will find someone.. get over him..he never deserved you..
" If you love something, let it go. If it comes back it’s yours. If it doesn’t, it never really was in the first place"
Think of it this way he lied to you and hurted you….it could be worse if he was your boyfriend…
Your young, you will find love again. I’m in love and i have to go to college soon and i’m only 18. But if hes mr. right he’ll wait, if not i’ll find love again. Don’t give up on love soo soon, cause you will find it again.
That guy was a jerk, just forget that guy….
Start your new life…….
Just think is that guy enjoying his life or not?
If your answer is yes then what is the reason for you to suffer…..!!!
Come on..there is nothing 2 lose heart about..almost everyone goes thruough such situations…but what u should keep in mind is that he is a loser & not u…he lost the girl who truly loved him,but what did u lose…a double-game rascal…u yourself can make the decision!!
& JUZ CHEER-UP!!!
i’m sure you will find someone else, someone better
this is just another lesson learned
don’t give your heart away so easily next time
because most guys use that in their advantage to just rip it apart
Yes. You can fall in love like that again.
Right now, you have been in a shock…you need time to go through the grieving process so you can start trust in men again. So don’t date…heck, don’t even take numbers from guys…instead, focus on your friends, family, school, work, fitness, etc. for a good solid month.
What you went through is very common for humans. Nearly all of us go through something like this. It is just the way we are built. Likewise, humans are built to go through a grieving process and, after some real time has passed, believe it or not, we tend to forget these kinds of things.
The worst thing you can do is to try to avoid the grieving process. You will just get stuck in the denial, anger, or depressed stage and you will waste years of your life.
He isn’t worth going through the process, the anger, the tears…but YOU are…so let yourself go through it.
You are young, and you will fall in love again. He was a jerk and you deserve better than that!
Love like you have never been hurt, dance like no one is watching!
No. He was the one. You might as well pack it in now and go become a nun.
All of these other people are just trying to be nice. Don’t let them give you false hope.
he broke your heart in the trailor park so jack the keys to his FRECKIN car and crash that peace of trash and then walk away.
i hope this makes you feel better!
http://youtube.com/watch?v=0x8B6C54ggY&feature=related
of course you will. you’re only 22. and herpe, cool, i’m listening to that song right now!
his lost move on!!!!!!!! sorry
i believe that everyone has a soul mate and he just obviously wasn’t yours, so yeah i do believe you’ll fall in love again, i mean it might take a while and you will probably run into so many weirdos and wrong decisions along the way to finding your true love but give it time and when it happens (because it will) it’ll be worth it!!
good luck!!
Yes you can fall in love all over again. This doesn’t that its the end it mean that there is someone out there who will love you better
YOUR 22!!! YOU WILL GET OVER! GUYS REALLY HATE IT WHEN GIRLS THAT ARE IN THERE 20 SOMETHINGS, SAY ITS OVER, OR THE ONE THAT ALOT OF WOMEN WHO ARE 50 SOMETHINGS HATE INCLUDE……. ‘HOW COULD ANYONE UNDERSTAND ME, WHO HAS LIVED LIFE!’ GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE AND STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOUR SELF!!!! Oh and word of advise, stop…. ‘Im looking for a man’ Love is where you find it, rarely where you seek it!
Time will be your friend. One day, you will wake up and tell yourself "I can’t believe I cried over that jerk!".
Look, sweetie your only 22 years old. When I was your age I had a few heartbreaks and now I’m 30 and have had a few more. Most men can’t believe I’m not married, or have a boyfriend as they say I am the whole package. I know what you mean about losing sleep. Your lucky he told you he has someone else.
1. He was a jerk to be a player and run around with you while he had a girlfriend.
2. Do you really want someone whom cheated on his girlfriend to be with you? NO!!!!!!!
3. At least you found out now than be with this guy for a year or longer and just fall for him more and get hurt more.
4. The truth is yes, you’ll fall in Love again. I think you think your in love with him. I felt that way when I was your age. I was so heart broken over a guy and it was a big mess years later he called me and apologized in how he treated me. I was so heart broken that instead of looking to see if he was home anymore or going by the married woman’s house he was seeing I decided to move out of Texas to NYC.
I never thought I’d get over him and all the tears I cried for him finally dissolved when I found someone else to be with. Then when that didn’t work out (4 years later) he still wants to be with me, I moved on and found a couple of other guys to date at different times. Eventually, both relationships dissolved and now I am alone. But, at each relationship I got something better out of each man I was with. I am better off now, and more evolved then when I was dating this one or that one.
Each time, I was hurt and had a break up, it got better when I met someone else, stayed busy, or made time for myself. Now, I am leaving NYC for LA next week and am pursuing my music and acting. I know I lived in LA as a kid and have traveled the world trying to evolve and find myself. Now, that my life is going full circle and I’m not looking I’ll find the right man when he’s supposed to find me…
You will too sweetie. Take it easy and have fun… Besides 22 years old is too young to really be head over heels over someone your still trying to find out whom you are and grow as a person… When you come into full bloom so to speak the right one will come. If your truly in love with someone and they are supposed to be with you it will work out, and there will be no complications. No, if’s, and’s,or buts, and everything will just seem effortless. Now go dry your pretty eyes, pick out what your gonna wear this weekend, and go out with your friends.
Trust me if you go out and have fun, and stay active and busy you’ll spend less time on him and focus more on yourself you’ll be much happier. Besides, your not gonna find Mr. Wonderful or Mr. Right now with sad and puffy eyes now are you?
Believe me, you have plenty of time and he’ll find you when it’s right. Til then don’t give this jerkoff whom broke your heart anymore attention than he deserves. And don’t talk about him to guys your thinking of dating it’ll turn them off. Just enjoy you. Your young, and full of life. Don’t take things so seriously. Take time for what you want to do like travel, have fun with friends, go shopping,go to school, try a new hobby, etc. There’s plenty of time for a man. Girl, Don’t waste the pretty, and don’t waste your youth. Trust me if you do this and focus on other things you won’t be bitter..
XO Aubrey
holy beep wat a faq c u n t omg i h8 guys and chiiks tht r like tht far out god thy make mi so angry!!
ok soz umm yea im pritty sure u will =] lov it comes and goes u may b stuk 4 a while tho i am lol and its been like 2yrs already yea so it wont come 2 quick and u wont get ova him 2 quick either so just take it ezy u should find like a friend tht u can really really trust and just talk it would make u feel alot betta i hope i helped awww and a *hug* for ur broken heart ive been through it and it sks so i no wat ur feeling awww sorry
tc and put a smile on ya face u will get through it =]i promise XD