Comments on: My Husband Still Loves His Ex. What Should I Do?

By: J@zz@ri

J@zz@ri — Mon, 11 Jul 2011 05:02:55 +0000

To InAmarriedBliss & all: you hit the complexity and hurtfulness of this situation dead on. I am going through this same situation w/ my bf of 2 yrs w/ his ex of two yrs who lives in Chicago, me California. I’m a reck right now cuz he went back to Chicago to visit & seen her. Now he says he’s confused. In love with me but loves her still… Pretty much in the back of his mind still leaves room for her to walk back into his life ( as much as he wouldn’t say it that blunt)

By: InAmarriedBliss

InAmarriedBliss — Mon, 28 Feb 2011 23:22:06 +0000

Men can be such jerks sometimes and I dont even think they know half the time. Men dont love like women and when a man loves he loves hard and when he loses it, he has trouble getting over it. However, we as women know when you have loved and lost and then have found love again, we cherish it and dont let the past jeopardize it and men need to learn how to seperate the past from the present or stay with the past and not involve someone else in some big twisted love triangle!

By: InAmarriedBliss

InAmarriedBliss — Mon, 28 Feb 2011 23:18:13 +0000

My husband and I met before his ex came into the picture; however, their relationship at the time was more serious than ours because I was ending a long term relationship. My husband and his ex lost their child at birth and the mother decided to leave for college. We then became more serious and later on married. He said he still loves her, but is not in love with her and is in love with me and wants to experience everything in life with me. I do belive him; however, he has in the past contacted her when we argue. He has recently stopped doing this, but now she still wants to be a part of his life. I think he uses her against me and is not in love with her, but is on some type of power trip. I am nobody’s fool and he better realize I am and have always been here for him even after she decided to leave the city after the death of their child!

By: ash

ash — Sat, 26 Feb 2011 06:03:27 +0000

This is my second marriage n my husbands aswell but i dint have kids while he had from ex,but after our marriage my husband decieved me and went back to ex,i am living in my country coz of visa problem and they both are living happily together in same house,once i got a txt from my husbands mobile i live with my wife and kids and i cant leave her for no1,but he denied by saying ”its not me she sent this text i love you and respect you i said i dont need your respect he said but you got it he never rings me even he knows i am not well never support me financially i dont know why i still love him i dont know what to do because i cant go to see him even i really feel desperate and degrade when his mum tells me he lives with ex,please help me any1 in this regard i cant even imagine to live without him,please any1 tell me how could i bring back my husband from exwife.

By: sick and tired

sick and tired — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 19:16:06 +0000

I have to say I am sick and tired of being the weak woman begging and pleading a man to “Love” me more than he does his EX…I mean REALLY??? This is silly why do we give them all the power…and yes…this is a power struggle. Tell yourself you don’t care and eventually you wont and then I promise one of two things will happen. He will stop with the ex crap (it usually stems from insecurity on his part anyway) or you will gain the strength to walk away. All he is doing is playin games.