how can i tell if my husband still loves me?
my husband been chatting in the chat room,he said it was just for fun.but i find out that he met with one of the girl last year and that make me loose my trust .he said they were just friend.i find out the phone number of the girl so i called her and she said that nothing was going on between them,but i just can’t trust him again so every time we argue it end up on that. he took over our finances now and he put password on his cell phone and pc so then i can’t check on him anymore. he always tell me that his not doing anything to ruin our family and that he’s not going to leave me ,but i’ve read a lot about people meeting in the chat room they end-up leaving their spouses .i am so confuse should i just let him do what he’s doing? how can i trust him again? how can i tell if he still love although i not that he loves his kids very much.
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Hello…..is anybody home???? The writing is on the wall on this one. Girl, you need to get some self respect. And come to think of it, get some self esteem and learn to love yourself enough to leave this situation before you are the one left. Take control of your life and stop waiting for your husband to leave YOU. Because he will. Your husband is waiting to make sure it works out with this "other" woman before he leaves you. Than what are you going to do? At least if you leave first, that shows your husband that you have self respect and he will respect you for it. He has made an emotional connection with this woman and that is dangerous. Because he has "fallen in love" with her and who she is, not out of having sex with her. I feel so bad for you. But pick yourself up, brush yourself off, and hold your head high. Love yourself and find yourself again. And one day, God will bring a true man into your life and heart that you deserve. Believe that. It happened to me. I will be praying for you, God Bless You.
Invite him into the bathroom when you take a dump, if he goes in, he still loves you.
It sounds like he’s leading a double life. You need to let him know you’re not willing to allow him to pretend it doesn’t matter. Show him the door, and see if he’s prepared to make you feel loved again.
@Larddawg- Funny enough, we were talking about that the other day.
I wouldn’t like my hubby to be chattin up some gal, behind my back. Why does he need a password? That would bug me too. If you hadn’t said he met one of his contacts, it would be different, but he did. Trust is a 2 way street. Maybe YOU should get a password, if it makes you feel better.
If hubby wants to chat, he got you, he don’t and no other married person need to be on the chat line anyway. That’s for people like me who wants to get into everyone business (the lonely ones). and don’t believe everything you read, ask him if he loves you and tell him to stay the chat line and chat with you
I don’t like the sneeking around either,if he was’nt doing anything he was’nt suppose to then why change the passwords.Some people get so hung up in chat rooms that it can get dangerous.I can see why you lost your trust.I would sit and have a talk with him and tell him if he has nothing to hide then to let you see his history.If he has nothing to hide or anything to be afraid of then he will let you see it.He may need help if he is on the pc a long while
thats what cheaters always say "its just a friend"….be extra wary..proceed with caution!
well he is hidding something if he has put locks on stuff to keep you out the locks aren’t for your own protection I gurantee that but don’t let him take over the finances as I would start saving what money I could to get me and my children out of there
i think he is a cheater.
When I was feelinhg like somehing wasn’t right, and said oh that must have been your girlfriend you told that to it wasn’t me. idon’t have a girlfriend. I mentioned divorce and he said jokingly this was maybe 2 months before I filed oh my buddies say it is cheaper to keep her.
Start putting your gaurd up, he is hiding sh*t from you, LOVE HOLDS NO SECRETS. my hubby and I are getting divorced because fo many reasons, for the most part it is because he hide things from me lied to me and never wanted to be with me, always avoiding me, here but ‘not here’ starting reading in bed, went to bed before me, was on the computer alot or at the bar. didn’t show me any respect. Forgot everything we talked about. didn’t care about my feelings. then stayed out a couple of nights, stunk of perfume, found condoms, sexual devices, hide his cell phone from me, wore under wear that said I’m yours all over it and when asked where he got them from said ‘oh they were on sale at walmart’ my hubby left in nov. but really he has been gone for a few years. Be strong, my best to youl