How to start love my husband again?
We’ve been merried for 7-8 years and 2 years ago we separated and after 6 months got back. Now we are living typical merried couple with a 6 year old child and It seems that there is nothing else to keep us together besides my son. I want him and love for him back. What should I do? How can I fall in love with him again and not have a relationship like this eny more? I’m sick of that stuper barryer between us and talking does not help. Not even a sexy underwear. Help plssss…Or this happens to all of you after 7 years or so????
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OK – this is good because you have identified that there is a barrier between you. Also – the fact you two reunited after a break is also a good sign. But you can’t move it forward!!
It is very very difficult doing this by yourself. It’s quite difficult for relationship counsellors to do it – but you will have more chance with a third party asking questions about your feelings. Often in the situation you describe, the will is there in both parties but something at an unconscious level is holding one or both of you back. And this is what you feel is a barrier.
I don’t know which country you are in – but in the UK there is Relate and many other similar organisation who provide this service . Expect to pay around £50 /hour and have around 5-10 hour long sessions. If neither of you can actually identify what the problem is between you – then you need a very experienced counsellor. You are more likely to find the experience you need in an older person. Good luck.
Talk to him. If he is only there for your son, maybe it’s best for you guys to go your separate ways.
try to talk to you husband..it’s tough but keep on trying..i think u still love ur husband but u just forgot how to do it again..when you’ve been together for that long you just forgot about each other’s feeling and tend to take things and each other for granted..hold on and be strong..best of luck to you!!