Comments on: How to get rid of my troublesome sister in law and save my marriage? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1820/how-to-get-rid-of-my-troublesome-sister-in-law-and-save-my-marriage/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: yu yu http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1820/how-to-get-rid-of-my-troublesome-sister-in-law-and-save-my-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-83002 yu yu Thu, 11 Aug 2011 18:08:32 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1820/how-to-get-rid-of-my-troublesome-sister-in-law-and-save-my-marriage/#comment-83002 My bf love me so much and care about me. He canged after we came back from his sister house. I know something wrong when I went there. I saw in her eyes she doesn't like me. After that he didn't contact me anymore. I knew that she put spell on me because she get jealous on me. I don't know what to do please help me. My bf love me so much and care about me. He canged after we came back from his sister house. I know something wrong when I went there. I saw in her eyes she doesn’t like me. After that he didn’t contact me anymore. I knew that she put spell on me because she get jealous on me. I don’t know what to do please help me.

]]> By: jeevitha http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1820/how-to-get-rid-of-my-troublesome-sister-in-law-and-save-my-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-63114 jeevitha Sun, 09 May 2010 21:19:53 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1820/how-to-get-rid-of-my-troublesome-sister-in-law-and-save-my-marriage/#comment-63114 plz plz help me...my mother in-law hates me to the core bcoz his son gives all the importance to me. till marriage happened she pretended to be very good to me in front of his son. now after marriage i resigned my job due to personal reason now that i don't hve job and simultaneously my husband has got lot of financial problems, he shows anger on me even if i ask for ice cream. i too got anger bcoz wen i had job i used to give my entire salary for household expenses after leaving my job he gets irritated for everything. i also told fed up with his behavior n i also scolded him back for that he tells I'm money minded n i always tell him that i have given money. but i never meant that i want to tell him is every time when he asks i wont even ask why he needs it...for now that I'm not earning she gets irritated to spend on ice creams and snacks for me. which makes me go crazy. my mother-in-law supports his son by telling my son has so many difficulties and wife is also troubling her and she talks topics of others divorce to my husband and my father- in-law too dances according to the tunes of his wife and now the situation has come up to a stage where my husband has asked me to leave the house and he will come when he really misses me.the best part is mine is love marriage going to complete 4th month of marriage life. I love him so much but he feels I'm money minded. don't know wat to do..... plz plz help me…my mother in-law hates me to the core bcoz his son gives all the importance to me. till marriage happened she pretended to be very good to me in front of his son. now after marriage i resigned my job due to personal reason now that i don’t hve job and simultaneously my husband has got lot of financial problems, he shows anger on me even if i ask for ice cream. i too got anger bcoz wen i had job i used to give my entire salary for household expenses after leaving my job he gets irritated for everything. i also told fed up with his behavior n i also scolded him back for that he tells I’m money minded n i always tell him that i have given money. but i never meant that i want to tell him is every time when he asks i wont even ask why he needs it…for now that I’m not earning she gets irritated to spend on ice creams and snacks for me. which makes me go crazy. my mother-in-law supports his son by telling my son has so many difficulties and wife is also troubling her and she talks topics of others divorce to my husband and my father- in-law too dances according to the tunes of his wife and now the situation has come up to a stage where my husband has asked me to leave the house and he will come when he really misses me.the best part is mine is love marriage going to complete 4th month of marriage life. I love him so much but he feels I’m money minded. don’t know wat to do…..

]]> By: econ476 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1820/how-to-get-rid-of-my-troublesome-sister-in-law-and-save-my-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-7925 econ476 Fri, 23 Oct 2009 16:50:41 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1820/how-to-get-rid-of-my-troublesome-sister-in-law-and-save-my-marriage/#comment-7925 If you feel that your marriage is at stake, then in your mind either way it's going to end. It'll end if you don't say something about or if will end if you do and get your husband upset! SO, I say you do!! You have nothing to lose if you give your husband an ultimatum. INSIST on the following two things: 1. She get mental counseling! If she says she is not crazy then she should be working and in her own place and inthat case 2. SHE stay ONLY on the basis that she will get a job if she doesn't have one and move out!!! BE VERY specific with your husband on this and make a date on when she needs to be gone by. If she's not gone by then, PACK YOUR OWN BAG AND MOVE OUT!! Even if you don't want to, go to your parents or friend's house for a couple of days. Your husband doesn't want to lose you and sometimes you have to play hardball. If you don't want to do what I suggested I say go on Dr. Phil. I am not kidding. He'll probably give you the same advice. If you feel that your marriage is at stake, then in your mind either way it’s going to end. It’ll end if you don’t say something about or if will end if you do and get your husband upset!
SO, I say you do!! You have nothing to lose if you give your husband an ultimatum.
INSIST on the following two things:
1. She get mental counseling!
If she says she is not crazy then she should be working and in her own place and inthat case

2. SHE stay ONLY on the basis that she will get a job if she doesn’t have one and move out!!! BE VERY specific with your husband on this and make a date on when she needs to be gone by.

If she’s not gone by then, PACK YOUR OWN BAG AND MOVE OUT!! Even if you don’t want to, go to your parents or friend’s house for a couple of days. Your husband doesn’t want to lose you and sometimes you have to play hardball.

If you don’t want to do what I suggested I say go on Dr. Phil. I am not kidding. He’ll probably give you the same advice.

]]> By: Sara http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1820/how-to-get-rid-of-my-troublesome-sister-in-law-and-save-my-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-7926 Sara Fri, 23 Oct 2009 16:50:41 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/1820/how-to-get-rid-of-my-troublesome-sister-in-law-and-save-my-marriage/#comment-7926 Well don't put yourself in the middle of it . It's your husbands problem , it would be nice if you could somehow make them fight , not being mean , but you and your sister-in -law are the focus , bow out don't deal with her if he's arguing with her then he will see it in a different way and get ride of her , take it off you and her . Don't sit and talk bad about her that only makes him defend her. If it gets to bad just say , to your husband it;s me or her. Case closed and mean what you say. He probably loves you a lot more than you think , you have power too, use it . Make him do something about it , and you bow out completely. Well don’t put yourself in the middle of it . It’s your husbands problem , it would be nice if you could somehow make them fight , not being mean , but you and your sister-in -law are the focus , bow out don’t deal with her if he’s arguing with her then he will see it in a different way and get ride of her , take it off you and her . Don’t sit and talk bad about her that only makes him defend her. If it gets to bad just say , to your husband it;s me or her. Case closed and mean what you say. He probably loves you a lot more than you think , you have power too, use it . Make him do something about it , and you bow out completely.

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