what are signs that your ex boyfriend wants to come back please i need help?
we was going out for almost 2 years and broken up for 5 motnhs now we talk everday for 2 months straight. well on friday we got into a fight ova the phone and he said that it was best for us not to talk nomore then the day b4 yesterday he im in yahoo saying if i still wanted to talk to him so i was confussed i thought he didn’t want to talk . well i love him and he says that he still love me too but not as stronger as we was b4 when we got together we still talk but im confussed i hurt him in the past when we was going out and i told him and he stood by me but 9 months lata he left .we both still care for each other i haven’t seen him since febuary 15 and well im just confussed he says that he wants to achive his dream b4 settling down again he says he don’t want a gurl because its too much worries but he said that he do think there is still hope 4 us in the future please help me i think he is confussed guys what do u think its up with him? he acts as if he still wants me sometimes
b4 he didn’t want me to date other guys and he use to try to comtrol me like if he was still with me i don’t know what to do i feel that if i leave again he might not come back to me apart of me wants to go but a part of me tells me that we could still work out the love we still have with us rite now i don’t know what to do please help im confussed. what do u think about him what up with him guys is u answer let me know for a guys point of view please
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I didn’t even finish reading your note, but from experience I would recommend ditching him… you deserve someone who can make up his mind and can love you 100%!! I had a fellow like that and I think he kept me around as security, so he wasn’t alone and felt loved… don’t be his love of last resort! Be strong and move on…
sounds like ya’ll are moving from the b/f g/f stage to the friend stage…. but he wants to keep the door open, and apparently so do you…..
so be friends with him…. but dont wait for him…. guys will string you along if they know they can just so there is always someone waiting on the side lines in case whoever they are with dont quite work out…..
at some point if he really thinks he still wants you i am sure he will let you know….
your boy friend still loves you i think you should just be friends for right now and let the time pass and see what happens
actually, it sounds like he’s jerking you around. whether or not it’s intentional on his part, the best thing to do is to walk away. FAR away. tell him that if he still wants to be friends in 5-6 months, call you. and stick to those guns!!! you will be able to see that there is more out there than eachother (and as much as you may not want that now, it’s for the best TRUST ME!!!) take your time being friends when its over.
good luck
He sounds like he wants you to wait around while he is out there looking for some one better .
Tell him you will be happy to stay friends with him ,no sex though. And if you are available when he is ready to settle down who knows,it might work .
But you live your life, enjoy your self you deserve it .
He is just one of many.