Can an ex wife change her mind and love the husband again?
Can you win back your ex wife after a tumultuous relationship. I have been with my significant other (not formerly married but went thru a private, spiritual ceremony to profess our love for one another) for close to 4 years. Things started pretty good at the beginning stages, the trouble started once I started to loose patience for her emotional ups and downs, (about a year into the relationship) and she got hurt from my quick to react temper, and vindictive communication during arguments. She says my mean words pushed her away. I moved out of the home about a month ago…started seeing a therapist to face my issues.Last week she told me there is no need for us to plan a reconciliation because she no longer loves me, that she wants to move on. Yesterday we met again and I packed all my stuff from the home.
Last night she told me she wants me to be strong. I take it she wants be to be strong so I can move on as well? Or be strong and show her I can be the person she initially saw in me? Any chance of her changing her mind? By the way, this makes no. 2 divorce/separation, plus another failed serious relationship) and no. 2 divorce/separation for me as well…I am concerned about a trend here….We both have emotional issues we need to deal with. I am working on mine, she said she would seek therapy on her own….I am having a really hard time letting go of the woman I love and feel helpless.
She is a witness of domestic violence as a child. So she can be very emotional at times, and very withdrawn at others…
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love is a choice. and in this situation- it sounds like your ex is the one who has to make that choice. just make sure that you tell her how much you love her and let her know that you are willing to work and do whatever it takes to save your relationship. at least that way, you’ll know that you did everything you could.
It’s possible, but she has to be open to it. It sounds like she has already made up her mind.
It is possible but doubtful once someone tells you that they don’t love you. You can’t force love to exist and some times the hurtful things that happen make it impossible for love to grow again. The best thing you can do is just to respect how she feels.
It’s probably time to move on. I don’t get the whole spiritual ceremony, you were either married or your weren’t. If it wasn’t legal, then what’s your problem? If you wanted a real commitment then you guys would have had a real marriage.
Sorry but No – and stop trying thinking or trying for this – it will only push her further.
It sounds like you guys need some counseling. If she is not open to that idea than it is pretty clear it is over for her. It gets to the point where too many things are said and done and the love just kind of dies. Her feelings may change after you are gone for a little while. She may have an epiphany that she made a mistake. But whatever happens…don’t let her play games with you and jerk you around. If its over..move on with your life don’t let her stop that. Alot of women get that "I don’t want you, but I don’t want anyone else to have you either thing" and cause problems with you moving on. Be careful and I do hope you guys can work through it.
Spiritual ceremony?
…how emotional was this girl?
And if you’re a bold character, what are you doing with an overly-sensitive person?