Ok, so I dated the most amazing girl in my life. We were together for 5 months and during this 5 months we told ourselves how we were the perfect person for each other and how we would never be able to find anybody better. We even talked about marriage, even if the relationship just started. But then, about 1 month ago, she moved because her college is too far. We were only able to see us the weekends, and it wasn’t always nice. Both of us are studying, have a lot of homework, we work when we have time, we have a couple of other activities so when we were seeing each other, it wasn’t as nice as before. We were hurting each other more than we were having pleasure. Because I wasn’t seeing her a lot I called her a lot and became kind of addicted to her. This is a thing she told me bothered her so 2 weeks ago, she asked me if I would accept to have a week where we wouldn’t talk to each other. It was hard but I accepted. During this week, I asked myself what made it not work like this, and I realized the more I was becoming "addict" to her, the more I was pushing her away. I decided that when we would get back together, I would be ready to change. When the weak was over, we decided that it really couldn’t work. We agreed to break up. The thing is that she told me she still loved me (so did I) and that if real love couldn’t work like this, how would she be able to love again (I think the same). It just couldn’t work at this time. This bothers me a lot, and I try to tell myself there are hundreds of other girls, but in a way, I don’t want to forget her in case it would work again. I want her back and read some things on internet where people tell you that the most important things to get your girlfriend back are to keep in contact with her so that she always have you on her mind, make her feel that you can live without her even do activities with other girls (not necessarily going out, just like do activities) and then like meet her and remember the good moments of your relationship with her. The problem is I don’t know if it’s the right thing to do and if it is, I would like some tips and tricks so that I don’t mess anything up. Also, I think it may be just a period of adaptation for her, she may need some time to get used to the beat of her new life, but I don’t want to only put hopes on this.
P.S. I forgot to tell you, it is her birthday in 3 weeks and when we broke up, I gave her a beautiful necklace made with gold and diamonds and asked her if she could wear it sometimes and think about us and she told me she wears it. I had also bought tickets to go see a show of one of her favorite musician and we both agreed to go together as friends because it would be fun. The thing is that the show is in one month and until there I don’t know what to do so that she doesn’t forget me or do anything stupid. And if you think the show would be a good occasion to like get back together, like maybe at the supper before talk and anything, just tell me.
Finally, I would just like you to tell me if things can still work between us and if yes, how to get her back? You can comment everything I said if you want, just give me tips?
(Another P.S. I know it may not be super useful, but also sexually I was the first guy with who she ever had an orgasm so I think it can’t be because of this, we were always having good sex)

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