how to get my ex girlfriend back?
So my ex girlfriend dumped me a couple of weeks ago because she will be graduating college in the spring and she may be going to work in Texas (we both currently attend college in Mississippi, and i am graduating a semester after her). We had been going out for close to 9 months, and we were and still are in love, and we had even talked about getting married in the future. Her reasoning for the break up was that it would be easier to break up now rather than waiting until spring. We had previously discussed the possibility of her going to work out of state and decided we would deal with it when the time came closer, and we even discussed me moving to Texas after i graduated, and we made an agreement that we would find a way to work things out. About a week ago she came over to talk and told me she was still in love with me and cried hysterically for close to 2 hours, and ive gotten a few text messages very late at night from her telling me she misses me, but she has also told me she does not want to get back together. I am trying to give her some space and am hoping she will realize she misses me, and i haven’t had any kind of contact with her for about 5 days, but its very hard for me not to try to not call her. I am considering calling her sometime next week to grab a cup of coffee, is this a good idea? I do not plan on bringing up getting back together i just think it would be good for us to go out because she may realize after seeing me she made a mistake. I am wondering if i am taking the right approach here? And if we grab some coffee what should be discussed? Should it just be a friendly thing, or should i bring up getting back together again? And if we don’t talk about getting back together that day when should i bring it up again? This is someone that is very special to me and i would do anything to get her back. I now this is a big question but any kind of help would be greatly appreciated, thank you.
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Hi
Winning back your ex girlfriend is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
Listen to me …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. Instead, be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
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