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	<title>Comments on: My marriage is heading down hill. What can I do to save it. The first thing that has gone is intamacy.?</title>
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		<title>By: Steeler</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steeler</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>pray :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>pray <img src='http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: mynci5795</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well first i know you always hear &#039;&#039;oh i have finally found my soulmate&#039;&#039; well there is no such thing as a perfect marriage nor a perfect person.i think you guys need to sit down and talk about how the past is the past sit down and let him know 
when you said this it hurt me.it will take some time &#039;&#039;forgive and forget&#039;&#039; now keep the kids out of this and make sure you do not do this in front of the kids 
                                                                      -GOOD LUCK</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well first i know you always hear &#8221;oh i have finally found my soulmate&#8221; well there is no such thing as a perfect marriage nor a perfect person.i think you guys need to sit down and talk about how the past is the past sit down and let him know<br />
when you said this it hurt me.it will take some time &#8221;forgive and forget&#8221; now keep the kids out of this and make sure you do not do this in front of the kids<br />
                                                                      -GOOD LUCK</p>
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		<title>By: carijo</title>
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		<dc:creator>carijo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Recognizing that your words are what is hurting your marriage is a good first step. You need a mediator, finding a good marriage counselor can sometimes be difficult, but once you do and if you&#039;re both committed to fixing your problems, your lives will change.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Recognizing that your words are what is hurting your marriage is a good first step. You need a mediator, finding a good marriage counselor can sometimes be difficult, but once you do and if you&#8217;re both committed to fixing your problems, your lives will change.</p>
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		<title>By: Ryzyn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ryzyn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok honestly the first thing you should do is start over fresh n just forget about the past problems... repeatedly bringing them up just makes it worse n doesn&#039;t let the wound heal.secondly if intimacy goes out the window then your gonna lose attention and people are morel likely to cheat when they lose focus or sexual desire for there partner in the end it all about lust.
Thirdly you might wanna get on that persons good side and i know women tend to whine n complain about things i wouldn&#039;t do that makes the person not wanna be around you 
but back to sex my best advice is lingerie and do things you did when you were younger...more spontaneity is a good thing cuz you never know whats gonna happened next n it keeps the relationship umm u cud say fresh cuz there always something new I mean theres alot of things you can do it alot so i cant list them all but you can instant message me @ drzpitbull (yahoo,aim,) ask me for tip  n things n ill give u my best opinion as u need it ill answer  ive alway helped other people i hope this helped</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok honestly the first thing you should do is start over fresh n just forget about the past problems&#8230; repeatedly bringing them up just makes it worse n doesn&#8217;t let the wound heal.secondly if intimacy goes out the window then your gonna lose attention and people are morel likely to cheat when they lose focus or sexual desire for there partner in the end it all about lust.<br />
Thirdly you might wanna get on that persons good side and i know women tend to whine n complain about things i wouldn&#8217;t do that makes the person not wanna be around you<br />
but back to sex my best advice is lingerie and do things you did when you were younger&#8230;more spontaneity is a good thing cuz you never know whats gonna happened next n it keeps the relationship umm u cud say fresh cuz there always something new I mean theres alot of things you can do it alot so i cant list them all but you can instant message me @ drzpitbull (yahoo,aim,) ask me for tip  n things n ill give u my best opinion as u need it ill answer  ive alway helped other people i hope this helped</p>
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		<title>By: Skatta</title>
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		<dc:creator>Skatta</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2009 00:04:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>personally, i&#039;m not a counselor kind of guy.

it&#039;s hard for me to give good advice without knowing anything about the both of you.

but i think talking it over without breaking out into a fight might help. wave the white flag. don&#039;t look for who is right or who is wrong. just together find WHAT is wrong. 

but i&#039;m not sure if i could recover from that type of situation. even if you manage to reach a cease fire, getting the love back i think might be really hard. if it was me i think i would need the love. and if i was going to try and get that back, then i might try going on a vacation somewhere, where you can talk it out and relax in an environment conducive to rekindling. something where it would be tough to run into situations that might start a fight, like money problems or like fighting over getting lost. so something really simple, like all inclusive hotel style, or maybe a cruise or something. where you just pay once and then you don&#039;t do anything else except for be there. with an option of possibly doing a side trip if things are going well, but the more stuff you try like that the more there is that can go wrong.

if that doesn&#039;t work maybe think about a divorce. if you&#039;re worried about the kids i would say younger the better, because when you are young no matter what happens is normal. plus growing up in a bad atmosphere would probably be worse for them i think.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>personally, i&#8217;m not a counselor kind of guy.</p>
<p>it&#8217;s hard for me to give good advice without knowing anything about the both of you.</p>
<p>but i think talking it over without breaking out into a fight might help. wave the white flag. don&#8217;t look for who is right or who is wrong. just together find WHAT is wrong. </p>
<p>but i&#8217;m not sure if i could recover from that type of situation. even if you manage to reach a cease fire, getting the love back i think might be really hard. if it was me i think i would need the love. and if i was going to try and get that back, then i might try going on a vacation somewhere, where you can talk it out and relax in an environment conducive to rekindling. something where it would be tough to run into situations that might start a fight, like money problems or like fighting over getting lost. so something really simple, like all inclusive hotel style, or maybe a cruise or something. where you just pay once and then you don&#8217;t do anything else except for be there. with an option of possibly doing a side trip if things are going well, but the more stuff you try like that the more there is that can go wrong.</p>
<p>if that doesn&#8217;t work maybe think about a divorce. if you&#8217;re worried about the kids i would say younger the better, because when you are young no matter what happens is normal. plus growing up in a bad atmosphere would probably be worse for them i think.</p>
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