How can I get my ex boyfriend back?
Me and my ex had been going out for a year before I developed depression. This lead me to become violent and I used to give him regular beatings for a few months before he broke up with me. I’ve overcome my depression and I still love him (I hate myself for hurting him) and want to get him back
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Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Guys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously make phone calls to him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When you look good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back.Anyhow, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).
You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex boyfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:
http://www.backwithextips.com/magic-of-making-up-review
Hope it helps.
Explain to him how you truly feel about him. Tell him you really want to give it another chance, that the person he knew before wasn’t the real you
I dated a girl like that a few years back. Constantly hitting me and what not. Even to this day I want to beat the shi* out of her. I honestly don’t think there is anything you can do.
talk to him about why you were beating him and say your sorry if that doesn’t work you can make him want you back
I doubt you can get him back. You broke that sacred trust. It doesn’t matter if your a male or a female, once you’ve been abused by someone you can never take that back..Sorry
If you can get into his social group JUST as another person this would give him the chance to see you are back on track and he may be interested in trying again.
He cared for you once so there is a chance he will give it another try IF you dont act wacko in the social circle.
Do NOT go out with any of his friends in the circle as this will likely make him not interested again.
Don’t push it with him, just smile and say hello. If you think that he is still interested you might apologize for your past behavior and let him know you have solved your problem (just dont go into this the first time you see him UNLESS he approaches you)
Alright, here’s what you do. Stop telling us all of this, and tell him the last two sentenses!!
-Good luck
Help with mine? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20091020054026AAXT734
The only way and trust me this is the ONLY way is to become friends again first and SHOW him how different u are now. Its the ONLY way.
Me personally coming from a guy I dislike it when girls think its funny or cool to aka "beat" whoop there BF. You took his pride from that man if i was him I wouldn’t go back with you sorry.
But hey if you still think there hope go to eHow.com
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