Were you ever in love and it didnt work out? Have you found love again or still searching?
Some people were in love and they feel like they wont ever find it again. But others find it and realize that it was a blessing in disguise that the other one didnt work out. Which side do you fall on? Tell me about it please.
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I fall into the second category.
I dated a guy for a year and a half and thought it was all fine and good. I loved him. He turned around and dumped me out of the blue for no reason and I was heartbroken.
Grief ensued for the next year or so, then life moved on.
Around two years after that relationship ended, I found my current boyfriend. Boy did I have some strange ideas about what love was in my first relationship. In short, I’m really, truly happy now, and life is good.
I dont know exactly if iv ever known REAl genuine love but mabey i have and if so…..no he didint want me the way i wanted him and he made me pay for it i was hurt by his lash outs and didint understand why he didint want me….i would of done anything for him and all i wanted was happiness for him but he didint want me gifts i guess…………………still serching
Love comes with consequences. Jealousy, insecurity, hatred, misery simply when you are not in the same room as the person you love, fear in case the two of you break up…I went through all of that in my first relationship and although I’m over it now I am afraid of feeling love again. That doesn’t mean I will avoid it though.
I’ve found that my definition of love has changed, and what I thought was love when I was younger was really not love at all. Now that I have really found love, I consider it a blessing that the youthful relationship failed since I would have been terribly unhappy in it.
I fell in love with a guy and wasn’t over him for years when he broke it off – even during other relationships. Then I met my husband and knew he was it from the first day we talked. That was 7 years ago.
yeahh i’m in love again..i fell for my bestie!
Absolutely the second one. I was in love once and it didn’t work out, and felt miserable (basically felt sorry for myself) for days but then I found someone else whom I’ve been happily together with for 30 years. Don’t know if some spiritual being was looking out for me or if it was just coincidence, but it certainly was a blessing.
I’ve been in love 3 times now. The first was, well my first lol, high school. We both went to different colleges, it was hard but moved on. Second was my longest relationship, 2.5yrs. It was fantastic, had a blast with the girl, we spent almost every day together. She graduated college and got a job 3 hours away from me (I had an extra semester until I graduated). We sort of grew apart. It was really really hard but we went our separate ways. We are still friends but don’t talk as much.
Now I’m with an amazing girl. It’s been 8months. About 3months in I realized I loved her. She means the world to me.
So basically I guess I’m saying that love is not a once in a lifetime thing. Some people you just click with, others not so much. I’ve been lucky enough to have experienced loving someone and being loved 3 times so far in my life.
Love is a very difficult confusing thing. I thought I was in love and im still not sure if i was but i kno its ben months since we’ve brken up and i constantly think about him. I dont want to be with him because i’ve found somebody who is so much better for me but sometimes i wish things could go back the way they were and sometimes i think what if that wasnt the end.But then i realize that it takes time after being with someone, it took my cousin almost a year to get over her ex.but if it didnt work out sometimes the past is better left in the past.you’ll find love again it just takes time and if you rush it it might not work so just relax and give it time.
ive had my heart broken so many times ive quit maybe im just to ugly
I was in love with someone who at first treated me well. But after a while she cheated on me and that was it. I later met another woman who I fell in love with who treats me better than I did i the past.
The only advice I can give is find someone that has the same interest and morals you are looking that you find attractive and see where the cards lie. If it doesn’t work out with that person there will be someone out there that you will love and they will love you in return!