How do I get my ex girlfriend to want me back?
I was dating my ex girlfriend for over 3 years. She recently broke up with me and is now with someone else. I love her so much and want to know how I can get her back. She says she wants to be friends with me still but its hard to see that happening with her. I’ve tried to fight not contacting her but its really hard to do.
I don’t know why she decided to break up with me. It really confuses me pretty bad. I don’t believe I did anything to cause her to break up with me. Although maybe I was a little needy of her. But I was.
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A lot of people believe that there are ways for getting your ex back!
There are some things you can do or not do that will increase your chances of getting back your ex.
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Grow a bigger one.
"wen a woman is fed up….there is nothin u can do about it…its like runnin outta love…and its too late to talk about it.."
Move on.
Lots more fish in the sea.
DUDE IF SHE IS WITH SOMEONE ELSE THEN SHE DOESN’T WANT YOU. MOVE ON. LEAVE HER ALONE. DON’T CONTACT HER. DON’T WORRY ABOUT HER BECAUSE SHE IS NOT WORRIED ABOUT YOU…..
You left out why she broke up with you?
Cheated? Terribly sex? Too needy? Shes a skank and was already hooking up with that guy anyways… Why did she leave you?
If she left you and is with someone, and doesn’t want you back. Move on, shes not worth the effort.
I’m sorry with the fact she dumped you.
Why did she dump you? There must be a reason. Did she start not liking you, did you do anything to her?
My best mates have done the same ting, and hes tried making her jealous, by going out with another best mate, don’t do that, because hes actually made a huge crack in the middle of our friendship group, and I’m in the middle. Not good.
Don’t do anything, if shes the one, she will come to you. If not, then someone else will come along very soon.
I was in this situation!
You have to stop contacting her…
It was hard for me too… but then I got busy with school and then one day, like 7 months after, I talked to her online, but in a different way…
I talked to her as if I moved on with my life…
I tried to make her understand that without even mentioning it
and she understood… but that made her want me back!
The minute she realized I stoped caring was the day she started to miss me caring about her…
You see… she knows she has you around her fingers
she probably thinks you still love her off
but once she knows you do… she won’t care because she can’t see you unless you moved on, or at dont show that you still have feelings for her. Just act like the better guy.
Trust me on this one!
Although, its really tough not to contact her, I think you need to stick it out – if you keep calling, etc. you might end up pushing her away even further. 3 years is a long time to be with someone, but leave it a while, and she will probably realise what she is missing.
Hope all goes well for u
xxx
Hello Aaron…..3 years is a long time to be with someone and now she is not there. And now here you are with us Yahoo strangers giving you all kinds of advice. Not a fun place to be I’m sure.
Your last comment above in the additional details is revealing. I’ll bet when you first met your ex girlfriend you were not needy were you? Us guys tend to change when we get very comfortable around our woman. Often that change can be acting needy, clingy and becoming followers. Far from the way we were when we first met our girlfriend.
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Hi buddy
Winning back your ex girlfriend is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are some steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to follow the right steps that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get your ex girlfriend attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who doesn’t take things too seriously is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
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all the best