Comments on: After being apart from husband for year is it possible to fall in love with him again after moving on?

By: ahotman

ahotman — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 01:41:45 +0000

I have never been married but maybe you should give him another go if you think he has changed, it all depends why you broke up in the first place and yes it would be better for your children but never forget a leopard never changes his spots

By: mosaic349

mosaic349 — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 01:41:45 +0000

did you really move on? hes your husband and even if you do re-marry…he will always tug on some of your heart strings. it sounds like his actions motivated you to call it quits and not because you stopped caring about him. but has he really changed? don’t jump back in just to be hurt again. what about a marriage counselor? or taking things really slow. start dating him again, invite him over to the house for dinner and a movie with the kids. but keep in mind that before you take him back you need to have NO DOUBT that this is a good thing. otherwise your kids will start to blame you, and resent you. let them in on your choices and why dad is visiting the house but unless your going to do it, don’t tell them you MIGHT be getting back together. trust your intuition.

By: In Love With Life

In Love With Life — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 01:41:45 +0000

I believe when a person truly falls in love and even if they later have problems it is impossible for them to ever fall out of their love because something must have been there or they would have never fallen in love to begin with.

By: ione_thestar

ione_thestar — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 01:41:45 +0000

Sometimes fate dictates what we need. When God is there, and God is, then anything is possible. Quite naturally, one who is in love never loses that love. That is why the feeling still resides within your heart. YOU and your children deserve the love that you are due. You must read Psalm 35 (Plead My Cause) and read Psalm 4 for (Safety and Protection). Put God at the helm and he will have jurisdiction over your life. Peace.

By: Doctrine365

Doctrine365 — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 01:41:45 +0000

LISTEN TO THIS: VERY IMPORTANT… Whether he has changed is not the issue. Assume he has not changed- are you willing to give your freedom up to be bound to him as he is? You have to love him for who he is, not who you wish he were. And people don’t typically change very much, assuming he is older than 18, and if he’s not you shouldn’t be marrying him anyway. It is better for you AND your kids that you be alone than with the wrong man.