Comments on: How do I save my marriage?

By: socool2befree

socool2befree — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 07:13:21 +0000

First of all ur wife sounds immature and I think it’s because you were her first and she didn’t have many other experiences. I respect the fact that the two of you are christians. However, being a christian has nothing to do with ur past indiscretions. She shouldn’t even be worried about that, at all. The two of u really don’t sound like u have any problems except plain ole boredom and immaturity. Christians are supposed to be forgiving and never once think that they are bigger than their God. For our God is a jealous God and nothing is before his judgment. Your wife is judging you and making u feel quilt about a past. Things that hap pended way before her and that is not a christian thing to do. Get ur guidance from a pastor and the good book if you need to. Realize that u pray together, repent, pray more, forgive and move on with ur day to day. Learn to simply enjoy each others company and not talk about divorce everyday. That’s ur choice so u have the power to stop it. I hope the best for the two of u. There are too many failed marriages out there. The media exploits foul behavior and infidelity so much to were most think a good marriage no longer exist. I don’t want yours to be in that category. This can be worked out! ;-D

By: pocket-ful-of-sunshine

pocket-ful-of-sunshine — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 07:13:21 +0000

try counseling

By: Klamiokel

Klamiokel — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 07:13:21 +0000

You said you are christians…does your church have any marriage counseling..if there is you should try it..But the most important thing you gota pray about you’re marriage..EVERYDAY..God will show you the right thing to do..Give It A Try It Does Work..God works in mysterious ways:)

By: Jessica

Jessica — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 07:13:21 +0000

is she jelous of the other girls youve been with?..Or is she insecure about herself because the girls u have been with.??.. seems like shes a little confused. You have to let her know that shes is the only women in ur life. Yes u did date a lot of girls but non of those girls can compare to her. Say that you did like the girls u were with but just a couple of things in each and every one of them and with your wife she has all the things and even more. You have to make her feel wanted and give her attention. Take her out show her off to the world. go to an amusement park go have fun. Remind her how much fun you guys had when u guys barely started the relationship. Get her flowers. Remind her everyday how much u love her and how much she means to u. And also tell her she looks beautiful every morning when she wakes up . Write her cute notes and poems. I know it seems hard right now. u reminding her all these things could help. I hope my advice helps u and good luck

By: Foodie

Foodie — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 07:13:21 +0000

i would recommend counseling for you guys.. sounds like you guys need to spend sometime away from each other and need to figure out what exactly you want from each other … Your wife is stuck on your past which doesn’t make any sense as she knew about it before she got married to you ..still cribbing about it doesn’t make any sense ..somehow i feel that there is something else on her mind and your past is just an excuse to take out her frustration .Anyways go for counseling and see how it goes …don’t give up