What do You do If Your scared to ever love again cause you’ve been hurt so much?
ive fallin in love and got my heart broken by a man i thought loved me and would always be there for me. but, obviously not cause he dumped me for such a dumb reason. and im scared to ever love again cause i dont want another guy to hurt me like he did. how do i conquer my fear? i need some help and advice.
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i had a bad breakup about 7 months ago. i find it helps to get out and be yourself again. flirt and so help you god take things slow with the next guy. dont be so quick to say i love you unless your certain he loves you.
tip: if someone is having doubts about wether or not they love someone they dont. love isnt doubted its known in the very depths of our most inner mechanics.
he wasnt good enuff for you if he left you high and dry for a dumb reason.
Okay! listen to me for a second… Dont ever get down in the dumps about so stupid guy who said he’ be there forever, becuase you know what If he broke-up with you for a stupid reason then he wasnt werth your time in the first place!!! let alone your tears or your heart ache. So therefore my advice to you is forget about him move on with your life because theres plenty of fish in the sea!!!
Oh sweetie, I’ve definitely been where you’re at, it’s not the end of the world although it feels like it now. The first thing? Take time for yourself and surround yourself in family, friends, people who have always cared and loved you. Don’t be worried about finding another guy right now, your head and heart aren’t ready.
Find that place where nothing in the world matters, you know you’re a good person, find things to keep you busy, go back to school, go out with a group of friends to a carnival, a movie, whatever.
The next thing is realizing that not ALL men are like your last ex, this is the hardest thing to conquer. Right now, you’re in too much pain to give any guy a fighting chance with you, so heal yourself first, be good to yourself, the rest will come into focus once you let the pain go.
time heals everything, and it sucks to wait until that healing has come and gone. it sounds like you just need a little you time, maybe some time out with the girls or with family. the right kind of support is important. just good quality time with good quality friends. go out, have fun, don’t worry about meeting guys that’s not something you need right now. work on being happy with your life alone and then in time you will see that you can be open to the idea of other relationships. and when that time comes it will be easy to meet people. and when that special someone pops into your life it’ll be an amazing feeling. but for your own protection try not to fall too hard to fast. so take a deep breath and relax, things are going to be just fine because believe it or not the pain does go away.
pick yourself up and get out and have fun and forget about him.
There is light at the end of the tunnel. My advice is this: As long as you still feel fear you are not ready or you have not found the right one. Lay low, stop looking for him and let him find you.
My ex husband who I deeply loved and cherished tried to kill me. I escaped my marriage but was devastated and traumatized emotionally and was afraid to trust someone again. Because when you truly love someone it is safe to be completely vulnerable with that person. But when you get hurt in places that are only revealed to the one you are supposedly safe with, trusting again is terrifying.
However, slowly and carefully I have pulled myself to a place that I not only believe I can love and be vulnerable again but it has happened for me. I have fallen in love with someone I know I can be vulnerable with. My fear is gone
So kick back, heal, give yourself time, guard your heart until you now its safe to give it away. Time is truly your friend. Don’t worry about love yet, your time will come. Trust me.