What Can I do To Save My Marriage?
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My husband, is currently deployed and while he is deployed i had allowed someone to stay with me she is a female… This girl and i have got into several altercations and I finnal put my foot down and told her to get out i cut the power and i cut off my phone and internet so she would stop running up the bills. Her boyfrind got out of jail and heard by word of mouth that she had been cheating on him while he was in jail and to cover her ass she called my husband and everything that she was doing she told my husband that i was doing so her boyfriend wouldnt leave her so now my husband believes that i cheated on him and i didnt I never did i havent so much as spoke to anyone but my father and other people in my family. I have never cheated on my husband and i told him that but he dosent believe me. How can i get him to believe the truth over some crazy girls lie? I love my husband so much and we have a child together and i would never do anything to hurt him ever. Someone please help me and actually read the whole story
the only reason i let them stay was b/c i didnt want to see their kids homeless and i realize i made a bad descision but its because im too kind hearted
not all my descisions are bad ones this is indeed one of my bad descisions but it hurts me to know that he might not love me anymore based on a bunch of lies and i cant really work now i have a baby
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Damn, people have no shame! She was afraid that her jailbird would leave her?
You need to think of what you have against that girl or her boyfriend, preferably in legal terms and don’t be afraid to threaten and make her call your husband back and tell him what she did. Thats the best I can think of.
I honestly hope everything works out for you. Such bitches should not walk the planet.
Well, first off you should hang around with trash like this girl and her boyfriend that just got out of jail. I would guess that your husband must not trust you or he would never believe her. You should be writing to your husband, mailing him a goodie box. Now is a good time for you to take a class, have two jobs and save as much money as possible for when he gets home. Then you two could go on a nice vacation or maybe buy a home. Instead you have let this worthless woman move in. I think you make bad decisions and your husband realizes this, too.
im sorry for what has happen to you but all you can do is let him know
that you love him and that you would never betrayed him in any way,
but he has to make the decision to believe you over someone else…
Well, first, you need this girl out of your house. Call the police. She doesn’t have any rights to live there so get her out.
Then talk to your husband. I don’t know what you expect from us, but you have to talk to him to explain.
Unless he’s very, very unreasonable, he’ll listen.
you lie down with dogs
you get up with fleas
there are scum girls all over the planet
who ALWAYS use their kids to benefit themselves
why should your husband believe her word over yours?
Yikes you got some pretty harsh answers. Im really sorry that you are going through this. Ok heres my advice I don’t think you give up which it doesn’t sound like you are. You know your husband better than any of us do so think about how you can get through to him. Are you close to his parents if you are & only if you think they can help talk to them. If you don’t think they can help try to keep them out of it you have enough to deal with. In one way I guess I can see why your husband believes the other girl over you this kind of stuff happens alot. On the other hand your husband should believe you & believe in your marriage. The first thing to do is get that girl out of your house now she will only cause more problems. How did she get your husbands # ? She is definitely up to no good you have to think about yourself & your family now. You can email me if you need someone to talk to or need some more advice. uncmom52@yahoo.com God bless you I hope this helps you.