Will he ever love me again?
Ok here it is this time…I am madly in love with this guy but right now our relationship is very very close to be broken up. In the beginning we were so in love and did so much together so to speak and were always talking about anything and everything and he would say the cutest things to me that to him probably meant nothing but to me, meant alot. and omg the way he looked at me, no-one has ever looked at me the way he did/does! The only thing is he’s been rather depressed these past few months and has changed a little bit, i still love him all the same though, but he doesnt talk no where near as much and he no longer does or says the cute and sweet things to me. because he no longer does this i havent felt as secure in the relationship and have found that i’ve gotten really jealous over any girl he talks to and i realise that my insecurities have been a nightmare for him to deal with because i do just tell him when something bothers me and i have asked what he’s been doing or who he’s talking to and i realise maybe thats not very right of me either. I want to change though. But 2 days ago we had a discussion about where we are in our relationship and he said that he cares for me ALOT but he doesnt feel the love for me anymore…as you could imagine Im devastated and know that I am the cause for that happening. I am willing to change and to try my god damn hardest at not getting jealous or telling him things i guess that may anger him like that. I plan on re-joing this thing we both did together in the hope that it will bring back the old times and we start fresh and he becomes interested in me again…I guess Im just wondering, do you think theres any chance of us regaining what we once had and me gaining back his love for me? or do you think its over and Ive blew it?? Please and Thank You…ANY advice is good, any tips, any ideas on how to win him back, anything….i just want him back! xXxXx
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I am speaking from a guys perspective on this for you, but i would say that doing the same things all the time, and pretty much "having a schedule". Thats what i call it when a bf/gf makes them call them at certain times evry single day and does the same things everytime they hangout. Not a lot of variation can leave a guy wanting more. I dont want to tell you this but he’s probably been thinking about other girls and wants a change. You have to take into consideration when being in a relationship there is always the day that there will be a break up, in other words… you cannot love without getting hurt. If you want love then you want pain. Thats what love is. There is a chance for you to get back with him, but dont make him love you, he will only hate that more. If he does get back with you, just be yourself, dont change. There is someone that will love you for who you are. so really dont change Jenna. hope everything goes well and i hope i helped.