Is it possible to trust my husband again and show him that I love him?
We have been married a little over 3 months. My husband ‘checks out’ all women, yes even my sisters, my 17 year old daughter(I told him if he even did this again; I would divorce him), my daughters friends, and my niece. It doesn’t matter who it is; he just checks them out , and then wonders why I have pulled away emotionally. Oh yeah, the ONLY time he shows me any attention is when he wants sex, which I tell him that I am not his wh***.
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Everyone always checks out others, it’s just human nature. He apparently has a problem with doing it in a manner that is very offensive.
You need to tell him that this is an issue for you and how it makes you feel. If he can’t quit checking out all the girls around, then you might want to think about moving on. He should be able to respect you and want to do what he can to make you feel comfortable.
Sorry but your husband sounds a little disgusting to me. That is your daughter and your husband is checking her out. ewww…..
did you not know this when you dated him
or did you just not want to see it
it’s only been three months
he had to be this way before
so why did you marry him?
You sound like you have some serious trust and insecurity issues.
Seek some therapy.
So his attention which to you is only for sex makes you a whore.
Seek some therapy.
BTW- men "check out" women. It happens. How it happens defines the crime.
Your man has much growing up to do I think. He see’s the opposite sex as objects and not as people, what is his relationship with his mother, did she die when he was young or leave him alone when he was young also, he needs to relearn who women are, be patient with him not angry
leave him!
Love is not accepting bad behavior
Love is not an act of trying to trust
Love does not seek itself
Love is easy
What is love really?
When you are dealing with the actions of another person, love doesn’t change the facts. It hides a multitude of sins rather. Look at the facts, look past the love you feel, past your fears of being alone, or loosing something and see things for what they are…then ask yourself..is this the kind of person I want to accept? Because you cannot change someone else, no…you can only make choices for yourself and let them decide if they want to make choices also. You can say "i will divorce you if you lust after my daughter again in front of me" and do it if he does…otherwise you are just compromising your integrity. You can say "honey I think your behavior is going to hurt our relationship, please go with me to get some help or I am leaving this marriage before we create something to destroy later". Or you could say nothing and accept him as the person he is. If he did not show you what he was about before the union…what are you going to do?