Comments on: wife cheated, shes home again, how i still love her and make love to her? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: jessicadamours http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/comment-page-1/#comment-9398 jessicadamours Mon, 16 Nov 2009 11:20:56 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/#comment-9398 Take a break. You've been betrayed. Go away for a little while, maybe, but this one is going to take some time, if ever. Stop imagining that she was having sex like she does with you. Don't do that to yourself, because I guarantee it wasn't. Only the two of you have sex like the two of you. Can you handle the answer if you ask her to give you a blow- by-blow description of the night? A sort of "putting yourself in her shoes" for the night? It's risky, but if you can listen, It just may benefit you so you can be angry, and then move on either way. She should be ashamed of herself, and getting angry at her once and blasting her does not relieve her of the tremendous weight she's put on you. You may never be able to trust her again. That sucks for you, because you had no part in it, and want things the way they were. Was there a problem that wasn't being addressed before this night? Does anyone have their head buried in the sand?? You may need to take this time to get right into each others brains and decided what each of you REALLY wants out of life. Please don't make the same mistake she did. You'll hate yourself. I can say that it is not the worst thing that can happen, but it is way up there. She betrayed you, plain and simple. maybe she should live without you for a while and the two of you can really see where you're at. get yourself some legal assistance so you don't lose touch with your child. Take a break. You’ve been betrayed.
Go away for a little while, maybe, but this one is going to take some time, if ever.
Stop imagining that she was having sex like she does with you.
Don’t do that to yourself, because I guarantee it wasn’t. Only the two of you have sex like the two of you.
Can you handle the answer if you ask her to give you a blow- by-blow description of the night? A sort of "putting yourself in her shoes" for the night?
It’s risky, but if you can listen, It just may benefit you so you can be angry, and then move on either way.
She should be ashamed of herself, and getting angry at her once and blasting her does not relieve her of the tremendous weight she’s put on you.
You may never be able to trust her again. That sucks for you, because you had no part in it, and want things the way they were.
Was there a problem that wasn’t being addressed before this night?
Does anyone have their head buried in the sand??
You may need to take this time to get right into each others brains and decided what each of you REALLY wants out of life.
Please don’t make the same mistake she did. You’ll hate yourself.
I can say that it is not the worst thing that can happen, but it is way up there.
She betrayed you, plain and simple. maybe she should live without you for a while and the two of you can really see where you’re at. get yourself some legal assistance so you don’t lose touch with your child.

]]> By: George C http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/comment-page-1/#comment-9399 George C Mon, 16 Nov 2009 11:20:56 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/#comment-9399 Are you sure you forgave her? If you truely have, then drive onwith your life and dont look back, and dont bring it up again. The only way you should bring it up is if you ever have reason to believe she cheated again, and at that time, I would kick her to the curb. One mistake is forgiveable, cheating twice, is not. Are you sure you forgave her? If you truely have, then drive onwith your life and dont look back, and dont bring it up again. The only way you should bring it up is if you ever have reason to believe she cheated again, and at that time, I would kick her to the curb.

One mistake is forgiveable, cheating twice, is not.

]]> By: Kyle http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/comment-page-1/#comment-9400 Kyle Mon, 16 Nov 2009 11:20:56 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/#comment-9400 ur not mad?!?!?!?! id be pissed if i found that out you seriously should divorce shes cheating on you and you know she is and you still want to have sex with her what are you thinking man the reason shes cheating on you is most likly because shes not as interested in you as she is for the other guy talk it over with her and tell ehr you know and ask her why ur not mad?!?!?!?! id be pissed if i found that out you seriously should divorce shes cheating on you and you know she is and you still want to have sex with her what are you thinking man the reason shes cheating on you is most likly because shes not as interested in you as she is for the other guy talk it over with her and tell ehr you know and ask her why

]]> By: 1ncebit2iceseye http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/comment-page-1/#comment-9401 1ncebit2iceseye Mon, 16 Nov 2009 11:20:56 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/#comment-9401 gee that is a tough one! anyone want a crack at it while i talk to a marriage counselor? gee that is a tough one! anyone want a crack at it while i talk to a marriage counselor?

]]> By: amber http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/comment-page-1/#comment-9402 amber Mon, 16 Nov 2009 11:20:56 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2012/wife-cheated-shes-home-again-how-i-still-love-her-and-make-love-to-her/#comment-9402 If you have forgiven her and you both want to work things out but you aren't sure how go see a marriage counsellor. If you have forgiven her and you both want to work things out but you aren’t sure how go see a marriage counsellor.

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