How do I get my Ex Boyfriend back?
its a really long story but we were together for 9 years, were both 24 years old and we been split up for the last 4 months because of something stupid…and i cant stop thinking about him..im so depressed and i miss him like crazy.
What do i do?????
He wont talk to me, face me or anything..hes really mad..any suggestions??
Thank u so much!!
WHAT REALLY WORKS?????
WHAT TO DO IF I REALLY WANT HIM..
I LOVE HIM TOO MUCH TO LET HIM GO!
LETTERS, PHONES CALLS, ETC.
[NONE OF THAT WORKS]
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Well, at 24 you have been with the same person for 9 years…you two were too young when you met and you haven’t grown because you haven’t had the experiences you need to grow, develop your relationship skills, and deepen your understanding of how things work. When you are with the same person for so long at such a young age you miss out on growth experiences that others your ages have gone through. Relationships, break-ups, being alone, etc., you have none of that. Of course you miss him, etc., but life goes on. The best thing you could do for yourself is get up and out and be with friends who care about you, have some fun that’ll make you smile and forget for a while, and continue moving in a direction that will take you forward in life. You have been stagnant long enough!! If it is meant to be it will be; if not, you have to grow up and move on with your life. While you’re waiting to see if it’s meant to be, start moving on and see what you have been missing!! Best wishes!!
Move along Mickey.
Send him a letter.
Just back off for a while and give him some time. Im sure that after 9 years he misses you too. Probably just stubborn!
First of all, what was the "stupid" reason you two broke up for?
WTF did you do to make him mad??????
why did you guys break up?
Well I think if hes mad at you, you must have done something wrong. Just keep apologising and mean it!
Like they say, let him go, if it was meant to be, he’ll be back, if not then it was wrong from the start
dont be obsesive
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dont call him
dont email him
and try to ovoid him alot
and get a new guy
then put on pics of u and ur new bf on myspace or sumthin and
if the ex goes to ur page he might get a lil jeluos
and if not at least u have a new guy
either move on, or continue trying to talk to him. what was it you guys split up over?
Get him drunk and sleep with him- he cant know its you till he wakes up. After that you say thanks for excepting me again. He will think you apologized to you.
what ever happened must’ve not been that stupid to him… guessing here , but you need a break its been since you were 15
If youve bn together that long, 9 yrs, n u fought over sumtin silly n yet you still cant get back together……..
Take the hint.
The bf must like the new single life.
It honestly must have bn sumtin pretty serious for you to ignore each other but if sayin i love you doesnt work your in trouble.
My best suggestion is to move on…some people aren’t meant for each other. You started dating at 15, you are now completely different people, and it is only natural. Take some time, get some space, and go enjoy the single life! There is plenty of fish in the sea, and maybe if you go swimming in the ocean a little, you will notice that! Hope this helps…
well if he does not want to speak with you. than you must give him the time that he needs to get over whatever it was. Also communication is very important so if he doesn’t talk to you than it is over and you must deal with it. slowly but surely.
Back off for a few weeks.
It’ll be hard. You’ll want to call him, text him, see how he’s doing. But hold back. If he starts to realize that he needs to put the effort into getting you back, he’ll probably come back in a heartbeat. But let him make the moves, not you. You’re way too good to be begging on your knees for him.
Trust me.
my my ex and i broke up i tried everything! even trying to convince him i was pregnant which justy was stupid. Men need time just be nice and if he wants you he’ll come to you. same situation with my ex he eventually called three months later but i had already moved on. you two have history and if it was stupid he’ll realize that. just have faith, but read the book hes just not that into you. it will help in making decisions and well just make you feel better about a break up. you are a fabulous woman deserving of someone who wants and loves you, if hes not it im sorry youyve tried your best and you can get someone who wants to be with you every second of their live. hell there is someone out there who will want to marry you!
If you two have been together since you were 15, have you really been able to grow up? At 24, you should be able to take some time to breathe—If you hurt him in any way, you can’t make him talk to you. Leave him alone. If he loves you he’ll call.
the only thing you can do is apologize for making him feel the way u did and tell him that you miss and you really want him back.
if he wont see you then call.
if he wont take your calls write him a letter
if that fails show up to where you know he will be and talk to him. he may soften up a little if he see’s the puppy dog expression on your face!
what ever you do you have got to let this man know you are truly sorry for what you did and assure him that it will never happen again.
amen sis..im right were u are exactly and idk if you broke ur guys heart like i did mine but brkin up wit him but its so hard to get a guy back after you do that and of course the phone calls/letters/and ect dont work…the only thing i found that worked a bit was FACE 2 FACE communication..so here’s my advice MAKE THAT HAPPEN ASAP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Definitely let him go. As trite as this sounds, if he comes around then you guys can get together again. If not, you’ll know his answer – no answer is the answer.
Stop trying to contact him. When he notices that you aren’t pining for him he will probably start to worry you are moving on and contact you. This worked for me and my ex, I wanted to get back together and he didn’t so after 4 months of torturing myself over him I decided to just move on and told him I didn’t want to talk to him and was going to move on with my life and 2 seconds later he asked me to be his girlfriend again…stupidly enough we got back together just to break up again a year later.
Goodluck.
Give him some space and write him a letter that is heart felt and expresses how sorry you are and that you love him too much to let him go. 9 years is along time. Maybe you both need some good time away and then you will naturally drift back together.
Good luck! i am sorry for you pain.
YOU MAY HAVE TO MOVE ON HE MAY BE DONE WITH THIS RELATIONSHIP IT IS HARD I DON,T THINK HE,S MAD HE SOUNDS LIKE HE JUST WANTS TO BE DONE WITH YOU. MORE THAN LIKELY HE HAS SOMEONE ELSE AND IT IS HIS WAY OF TRYING NOT TO HURT YOU BUT HOPE YOU WILL JUST HAVE IT IN YOU!!!!! TO MOVE ON!!!!! 4MONS IS A LONG TIME… HE HAS I THINK FOUND SOMEONE ELSE TO OCCUPY HIM.. HAVE SOME DIGNITY MOVE ON AND MAYBE BY A LONG SHOT WHEN HE DOES NOT HEAR FROM YOU IF HE,S GAME PLAYING HE JUST MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN WHAT YOU ARE UP TOO. SOMETIMES PEOPLE THINK THIS IS THE ONE FOR THEM BUT SOMETIMES IT TAKES ONE OF YOU TO FEEL THAT IT IS TIME TO BE DONE MAYBE ITS YOU THAT CAN,T LET GO AND HE,S TIRED OF BEING UNHAPPY DON,T TRY TO HOLD ON TO SOMETHING THAT DOES NOT WANT TO BE THERE GET YOUR LIFE BACK ON TRACK WORRY ABOUT NO.1 IT IS YOU !!!! IF YOU DON’T NO ONE ELSE WILL" YOU ARE GONNA MAKE YOUR SELF SICK AND UNDESIRABLE TO OTHER PEOPLE PICK YOUR SELF UP AND BE STRONG GOOD RIDENS TO THE RELATION SHIP THINK AFTER 4 LONG MON,S WHAT DOES HE CARE WHY CHASE HIM..
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