please help, will I ever find love again?
k so I went all psycho on an ex, nothing physical, just acted irrational, wasn’t sure what I wanted at the time, I didn’t cheat or did anything immoral (thank goodness), I mean psycho as in I acted like a total brat..
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k well this is the first guy who respected me, treated me well, was the best bf ever…I loved him so much and I pushed him away, I feel so sad and depressed. I know what I did wrong and am trying to take some 6 months off from dating to figure myself out…
I was thinking, what about the future? when I’m back to go out into dating, would any guy not hold the past against me?
i’m in my 20s if that helps
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I did the same thing at 25, I had the perfect guy and I just was an idiot about it and broke up with him. I am now happily married for 2 years to a wonderful guy and thinking back I know guy #1 was not as perfect as I played him out to be, but at the time I thought I would never find anyone to compare to him. I was wrong. Time heals everything and the past is the past. Move on and realize everything happens for a reason. If it hadn’t been for the "perfect guy" I wouldn’t be who I am today and might have made the same dumb mistakes with my husband and lost him.
No guy will hold the past against you. As long as you learn from your mistakes, the next guy that comes along will find you perfect.
If someone really wants to be with a person, the past won’t matter (Unless you were a murdering, rampaging, history of mental illness and drug abuse psychopath…and many people still look past all that). You have realized your wrongdoings and that is more than a lot of people…some people bumble through life thinking they did nothing wrong and repeat mistakes over and over. I promise you, when you find love again, it will not be your past that holds you back–if anything holds you back it will only be your own self doubt and fear. If you do anything in these next few months focus on getting your confidence back up so that when you get back into dating you will know that you deserve someone great for you.
You need to move forward because its you thats living in the past.
A new relationship should be taken for what it is and if anything further develops then it will of its own accord, you cant make love happen it just does.
Good luck.