How do i get my wife to fall in love with me again?
SHE HAD KIDS AT THE AGE OF 16 I MET HER WHEN I WAS 25 GOT MARRIED 3YEARS LATER RAISED HER KIDS .NOW THE OLDEST IS GRADUATING AND THE OTHER IS 16. HER NEW JOB WORKING AT THE ARMY BASE , MANY HOURS , SHE NOW SAYS SHE WANTS TO TRAVEL IF HER JOB TRANSFER HER. SHE CLAIMS SHE LOVES ME BUT NOT I LOVE WITH ME .
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Go back to the way you treated each other in the beginning. Flowers, gifts occasionally. Look at her when she talks with you. Honesty and respect, concern for her.
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I am so sorry to hear that. Do something to make the sparks fly and bring the romance back into your life like going on dates, a romantic getaway, a second honeymoon.
The answer is distraction. She is busy with things like her career. Take her away from those. Give her a break. If you have enough money to spend, travel somewhere. Do some group activity. But most importantly care for her. Realize what are the things that are importrant to her and help her achive those. She will again fall in love with you for sure.
Well, You Should Show Yourself Like A MAn Who Is Interesting And Wants TO Fall In Love With Her Again . Just You Must Know How To Show ! Try To Convince Her That You Are Not That Man Before And You Changed ! A Huge Change
Romance and love and gifts only things left now. Once u take responsibility, u gotta fulfill their every wish.
It’s all about the little things you do for her. The little things you say to her. You better act now while you have a chance. Once she transfers, she’s gone.
damm thats tough love son.
i didn quite get ur last line. is it a bad typo or is it me?? not an expert but here’s some reminder tt might be useful. remind her tt u love her everyday, give lots of surprises!!!! YOU R NEVER TOO OLD FOR THAT!! kiss her good night always. let her have something to miss real badly everyday n she might change her mind to travel away. jus bring back those courtship days. every couple needs to learn to fall in love again n again throughout their entire life to stay together forever.sure lot of hardwork. all e best! i appreciate guys who treasure their wife or gf.
When a woman states she "loves but is not in love" with you, that is bad enough, let alone your wife coming to you with such trash. Here’s what she is (really) saying to you: "I know that I can use you (for money, sex, companionship, appearances, security, etc)". However, YOU sir need to pick-up your dignity (and suitcase) from off the floor, continue to play a role in your kids’ lives (if she will permit and/or they, themselves, desire that) and move on. A good man is a jewel. Are you a diamond? Lots of (good) women out here are just a-wishin’ to locate a diamond! GO get ‘em, Tiger! Drop that zero, and go be somebody’s Hero!
Did you have any kids with her? I know this sounds awful but maybe you have served your purpose and she’s ready to move on. She wants to travel–could she have met someone at work? Does she want you to go with her?
I have never fallen back in love with anyone once my feelings changed. But then no one ever really tried to make it happen. Give it your all if you still want her. Do everything you did to win her love the first time. Really listen when she talks. I hope everything works out well for you.
First of all she had children very young now that most of them are getting older she finally gets to do what she always wanted to do (like travel). I would tell her that you would be willing to travel with her and that we both could do things together as a couple,and tell her that you love her so much that you would be willing to start a new and that you want her love more than anything.
do the same what u did to get her in the begining
Act indifferently. Don’t be a jerk, but play it cool – this will intrigue her and make her recognize that she is not the only one who can leave. Fear of losing you will make her fight to keep you – women enjoy a challenge!
Flowers and romance are not going to work and will probably only irritate her. If she feels that she is not in love with you right now, all the flowers in the world mean nothing. You need to have the right feelings for the person to start with. You need to make her recognize that she has those feelings, and that she should stop taking you for granted because if she doesn’t, she may lose you.
sorround her life with love. flowers, dates, kisses, lovemaking music. Make her feel like your trying to date her all over. Make her feel like you ae nothing without her, let her know how much you need her and want her to be near you.