Comments on: Why do I feel that I will never love again, 3 years after my husband died, is this the end of luv for me? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Thoughtfull http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/comment-page-1/#comment-9667 Thoughtfull Thu, 19 Nov 2009 09:36:54 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/#comment-9667 You feel definitely that you will never love again, because you are not ready to love again, and you feel sad that you won't love again, because you really do want to love, and you want, and need to be loved. You are holding on to the past, and that is your choice. I feel sad for your situation, however perhaps you can have some small satisfaction knowing that you are not alone. Many people are going through the same thing you are going through, and many more have been there. I myself have married twice in my lifetime, I loved pure and true both times, also both times my wife's divorced me, even though that was not my desire, leaving my life in broken shambles. I will say that it is my sincere belief that loosing a spouse by way of divorce is much more difficult than by death, as I myself have been single now for more than 10 years, and I see my ex-wife's continuing there life's happy with other men, while I myself am single. For you, you will always know that your spouse always loved you. Take all of the time you need, and don't worry, but always remember that your time with your spouse was very special, and there is no one who can fill his shoes. If you ever do decide to get into another relationship, please never judge the next person by the last, just accept them for who they are, and hopefully you will both be happy when the time is right for you. I hope this was helpful to you. You feel definitely that you will never love again, because you are not ready to love again, and you feel sad that you won’t love again, because you really do want to love, and you want, and need to be loved.

You are holding on to the past, and that is your choice.

I feel sad for your situation, however perhaps you can have some small satisfaction knowing that you are not alone.

Many people are going through the same thing you are going through, and many more have been there.

I myself have married twice in my lifetime, I loved pure and true both times, also both times my wife’s divorced me, even though that was not my desire, leaving my life in broken shambles.

I will say that it is my sincere belief that loosing a spouse by way of divorce is much more difficult than by death, as I myself have been single now for more than 10 years, and I see my ex-wife’s continuing there life’s happy with other men, while I myself am single.

For you, you will always know that your spouse always loved you.

Take all of the time you need, and don’t worry, but always remember that your time with your spouse was very special, and there is no one who can fill his shoes.

If you ever do decide to get into another relationship, please never judge the next person by the last, just accept them for who they are, and hopefully you will both be happy when the time is right for you.

I hope this was helpful to you.

]]> By: Marsh http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/comment-page-1/#comment-9668 Marsh Thu, 19 Nov 2009 09:36:54 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/#comment-9668 I have been where you are now, and I know how you are feeling inside, but trust me in time that will pass. You will never forget what you had with your spouse, and you will get to a point that you realize it is ok to move on and that it is what he would have wanted for you. It is obvious you are not ready yet, so try and understand those that ask cant help they are interested and relax...someday hopefully you will feel differently. For now...its ok...good luck to you little one I have been where you are now, and I know how you are feeling inside, but trust me in time that will pass. You will never forget what you had with your spouse, and you will get to a point that you realize it is ok to move on and that it is what he would have wanted for you. It is obvious you are not ready yet, so try and understand those that ask cant help they are interested and relax…someday hopefully you will feel differently. For now…its ok…good luck to you little one

]]> By: lynda l http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/comment-page-1/#comment-9669 lynda l Thu, 19 Nov 2009 09:36:54 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/#comment-9669 you're still grieving....there is no magic number on when you will be able to love again but by asking the question you're in the right direction. Don't try and stop putting any pressure on yourself that you should be in love... Start with the people, friend and family close to you.. their love have been around you. The kind of love you shared with your husband was special and nothing should and will replace it. Just feel blessed that in your life you had the privilege to experience it...now of course it will be different but no less important, just different. It's Okay for you to move on. you’re still grieving….there is no magic number on when you will be able to love again but by asking the question you’re in the right direction. Don’t try and stop putting any pressure on yourself that you should be in love…
Start with the people, friend and family close to you.. their love have been around you. The kind of love you shared with your husband was special and nothing should and will replace it. Just feel blessed that in your life you had the privilege to experience it…now of course it will be different but no less important, just different. It’s Okay for you to move on.

]]> By: ki ki http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/comment-page-1/#comment-9670 ki ki Thu, 19 Nov 2009 09:36:54 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/#comment-9670 I think your getting something wrong here. If he is dead, it doesn't mean that your love is dead, too. If you believe in life after death, you could see that he is still alive, and if you don't want to date anyone else, you shouldn't be sad, cause your gonna be with him, afterward (but don't think about suicide! =) ). but if you really want to date someone else, just do it. Don't think of this as a substitute for your love toward your husband, instead, a new friend (or love), you're gonna have besides him. I think your getting something wrong here. If he is dead, it doesn’t mean that your love is dead, too. If you believe in life after death, you could see that he is still alive, and if you don’t want to date anyone else, you shouldn’t be sad, cause your gonna be with him, afterward (but don’t think about suicide! =) ). but if you really want to date someone else, just do it. Don’t think of this as a substitute for your love toward your husband, instead, a new friend (or love), you’re gonna have besides him.

]]> By: ~.."Natalia "..~ http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/comment-page-1/#comment-9671 ~.."Natalia "..~ Thu, 19 Nov 2009 09:36:54 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2038/why-do-i-feel-that-i-will-never-love-again-3-years-after-my-husband-died-is-this-the-end-of-luv-for-me/#comment-9671 Well you will always love him and he'll always love you so just give your self some time you will know when you are ready to date and let someone in you life again and you could love again its all up to you. Good luck Well you will always love him and he’ll always love you
so just give your self some time you will know when you
are ready to date and let someone in you life again and you could love again its all up to you.
Good luck

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