Can you ever love again after the death of someone with whom you experienced deep love?
I don’t think I could. I’ve never experienced real love, but when I do, I’ll be faithful it even after they die. All I have to do is close my eyes and remember.
And for those of you wondering, yes I’ll have sex again, but I’ll never love again.
It would be interesting to see the differing responses between men and women.
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I lost the love of my life seven years ago and still can’t replace her.
I don’t want anyone else she can never be replaced.
Yes, dear. It just takes time.
Yes, you can. Time heals all wounds.
I think so. Not sure if I could, but yeah. Fortunately, there’s no finite ability to love.
You may love *differently*, but it’s your choice to never love again.
You should note that a person’s age has a interesting effect on their concept of "never."
Only time will tell.
Of course, real love is always present. : )
I loved my fiance with a passion and a joy I never thought possible. When he passed away, I moved to another state. Years later, I found another man who I felt the same way about. I was very nervous about getting married, because of my first fiance but I am so glad I trusted myself.
I dated a lot, but never expected to find what I found in Kevin. I am still surprised that my husband gives me the same chills 10+ years after I met him. I never ever expected to feel that again.
Trust me, the universe does provide when you allow it.
No you cant i know i have been there and i am still there i lost my lady of 8 years who i truly loved and i haven’t and don’t think i will ever love like that again.I love people but its not the same and i have resigned myself to the fact that this is the way it is.Thanks for the post.God Bless you and yours.
The question extends beyond loss by death…
The loss of a deep love by any means can be devistating. If it happens in your life, I hope you’ll be able to find a new and equally meaningful love attachment without sacrificing everything you knew from the earlier relationship.
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I think I could love again, but it would probably not be as deep. I can’t imagine my life without my husband in it, and I don’t think I’d want to start all over again with someone new, but if I had a strong friendship that developed into something more, I could totally see myself loving again.
There are all kinds of love. I really believe that we love each and every person in our life in a different way.
EDIT: My cousin died after a lifelong illness. He and his wife were deeply in love, but he made her promise she would remarry after he was gone. She ended up marrying a man with whom they were both (she and her husband) very close friends. She cried when she took off her wedding band from her first husband but insisted that she didn’t want to wear it because she thought it would hurt her new husband’s feelings to see it.
Her new husband as a gift had her previous wedding band reformed into a special clown charm in memory of her first husband (he was a clown who visited children’s hospitals) so that she could always keep him close to her heart. She found love again, just not the same type or depth of love she had before.
sometime those who says "i can’t love again" do fall in love again.
with that top I am sure you will find some form of intimacy soon.
You are a good person with a strong spirit. Lsten loving again does not ever mean forgetting. I hope you know that dear one. I have suffered many loses,and been through many dark nights of the soul,but not ever has it broken who i amm in Christ or my love love for my lost lady. That is why love is forever,real love. Jesus loves us,and as Paul said,neither,life,nor death can ever seperate us from that. God loves warriors,not wimps. The true warriors for God endure much loss and heartache,for a servant is not above His master,but we fight through it all,because it will 1 day spring forth into eternal life. Naver quit!.
Well Jaded. I respect your devotion to your spouse but you must realize that even though he is dead he would not want you to spend the rest of your life alone and heartbroken. You should not let his death also end your life while you are still alive. Time will heal your heart and when you find true love again don’t be a fool and reject it. Feel just as blessed as the first time.
All love on the mortal plane is going to die at some point–through physical death or other loss. However beyond that is a place of pure Love which is eternal. Sometimes we get a glimpse of this through our experiences with another human being. I assure it is only a candle flame to the sun.
Every thing is
true just as it is:
Why dislike it?
Why hate it?
You are not going to get love if you make yourself a cheap stuff, selling by showing samples is antique now.
There is no such thing as love between male and female. It is a need cum love relationship. Men like me will love a woman if she is faithful to me only. If she flirts with others, not to speak of lovemaking, I will never love her. You need to love in order to be loved.
The real love is between man and God, parents with sons/daughters and between siblings. Between males and
females it is a marriage of convenience which has the potential to grow into love, given fidelity, long association and
common bond of love of the children.
Javed Kaleem
No I can’t never do this.I wish to live in his thoughts only that some how connects me with him.Good Day and Happy Life.