Comments on: should i pretend to believe in jesus to save my marriage? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: willycea http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-76392 willycea Wed, 04 May 2011 06:11:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/#comment-76392 she is a loopyloo run as fast as you can before she taints your mind with religious crap! she is a loopyloo run as fast as you can before she taints your mind with religious crap!

]]> By: shadowcatx2000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-9818 shadowcatx2000 Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:00:22 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/#comment-9818 My advice is to seek out couples counseling and get some help. My advice is to seek out couples counseling and get some help.

]]> By: ♫►Phillipians 4:13◄♫ http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-9819 ♫►Phillipians 4:13◄♫ Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:00:22 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/#comment-9819 No, you shouldn't pretend to do anything unless you are an actor in a movie role. Perhaps you should try and find out where she is coming from, go to church w/ her if she goes to church, talk to her pastor, read the bible for yourself, talk w/ other men that go to her church about it. Believe me when I tell you that she isn't crazy like I read on another posts answer, she is concerned w/ where you are going to end up in the afterlife. She clearly loves you and if you love her, then you won't pretend but you will research and learn about what she loves. No, you shouldn’t pretend to do anything unless you are an actor in a movie role.
Perhaps you should try and find out where she is coming from, go to church w/ her if she goes to church, talk to her pastor, read the bible for yourself, talk w/ other men that go to her church about it.
Believe me when I tell you that she isn’t crazy like I read on another posts answer, she is concerned w/ where you are going to end up in the afterlife.
She clearly loves you and if you love her, then you won’t pretend but you will research and learn about what she loves.

]]> By: SoCerebral http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-9820 SoCerebral Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:00:22 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/#comment-9820 How long have you been married? Perhaps she should have thought about this before she married you. If her religious attitudes have changed since you married, I honestly don't think there's much you can do. You can't "pretend" to believe in Jesus. Tell her that if the power of prayer is real, then God will speak to your heart if she prays enough for you to be saved. Obviously if it's all true, then everything will turn out fine. Tell her that nagging and crying is pushing you further away from her beliefs and views, not closer. The Bible says she should teach you by example of her good and Godly behavior, not cry all the time. Tell her she is not being a good Christian, and she's making it look like Christianity is miserable, not great. If that doesn't shake her out of her self-pity, then you may not be able to save the relationship. I'm sorry! How long have you been married? Perhaps she should have thought about this before she married you.

If her religious attitudes have changed since you married, I honestly don’t think there’s much you can do. You can’t "pretend" to believe in Jesus. Tell her that if the power of prayer is real, then God will speak to your heart if she prays enough for you to be saved. Obviously if it’s all true, then everything will turn out fine. Tell her that nagging and crying is pushing you further away from her beliefs and views, not closer. The Bible says she should teach you by example of her good and Godly behavior, not cry all the time. Tell her she is not being a good Christian, and she’s making it look like Christianity is miserable, not great.

If that doesn’t shake her out of her self-pity, then you may not be able to save the relationship. I’m sorry!

]]> By: Gingwa http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/comment-page-1/#comment-9821 Gingwa Sat, 21 Nov 2009 00:00:22 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2055/should-i-pretend-to-believe-in-jesus-to-save-my-marriage/#comment-9821 It really does sound like she needs some sort of counselling. It really does sound like she needs some sort of counselling.

]]>