Comments on: Dating While Separated?

By: Kelly

Kelly — Sun, 25 Sep 2011 15:46:20 +0000

You are using this other man as an emotional cruch. Have female freinds to help you. You have no business having a male friend becuase we all know it’s more than that. I took tow full years bfore I dated after my divorce. You will not see the Red Flags flying with your male fiend while in a confused state of mind. I have to say this male friend would he like another man to do this to him if he was having trouble in his marriage? I’m sure not.

By: J. MACK

J. MACK — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 13:13:27 +0000

You can’t have it both ways. EIther you want to be married or be single. Make that choice now

By: Darcy

Darcy — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:36:25 +0000

There is nothing wrong with having friends when you’re going through a divorce.

In fact you need as much support as you can get during this time.

You have exhausted ALL avenues with your husband and divorce is the only option left.

Do not feel guilty for moving on………however it probably is in YOUR best interest to keep it discrete until the divorce is final. That way it cant go against you in anyway.

But remember there is no law against having friends!

By: MandM

MandM — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:36:25 +0000

Wow, you are trying to get back together with your husband but after 3months you are already dating and trying to deceive your husband about ur relationship? LOL GTFO

By: gibberligg

gibberligg — Sat, 21 Nov 2009 09:36:25 +0000

First, I think it may be time to accept that your marriage is over. Your husband’s opinion that ‘the books don’t apply because [he] doesn’t want to save the marriage’ seems strong: it is impossible for one person to save a marriage between 2 people.

On the dating front, I’d go ahead with a divorce questioner. If your lawyer thinks that having a new partner could affect your chances of a good settlement, I’d cool it with the new man until everything is settled.

Good luck.