How does taking a break from your ex benefit the two of you if you get back together?
My ex (I hate using that term) broke up with me after 16 months together, mostly because of the dumb fighting. Before we dated, we were really good friends for a few years and he told me that even now that we’re not dating, I’m still his really good friend and that won’t change. He also says maybe we can date again, but for now, he just wants to be friends.
So my question is, how does taking a break form dating help us? I still love him dearly… he means the world to me and if I could, I’d have him back right this minute. What will this time somewhat apart do? Our romantic relationship was very laid back… just like our friendship is/was. How will this time "strengthen" us as I’ve so heard it’s supposed to do?
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It seems to me that you are making a mistake a lot of girls make when communicating with their ex. I’ll explain
Obviously you’re not at fault here but you have to realize that guys brains work a lot differently than girls. His actions may not make sense to you but they can be explained and when you understand what’s going on you’ll be able to deal with this a lot better. You should watch this youtube video, it’ll explain it a bit better than me (whether you want to get back WITH him or AT him):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V6CsyjK1toY
So in other words you need to know:
- What exactly goes on inside a man’s mind (not only your ex)
- How to push his emotional buttons so he comes crawling back to you
- Specifically how to make him commit to you after you get him back
Now whether you’ll want to deal with him after or not, and what you want him to commit to, is entirely up to you. The most important thing is to get the control back in your hands.
Does that make sense to you? It’s hard to understand at first unless you’ve dealt with it before already