Is my ex boyfriend trying to get back together with me?
Broke up with the ex boyfriend about a year ago because I was in love with him and "he wasnt there yet". He was in the middle of the police academy which I know was very difficult for him and trying to be in a relationship and going through that is a lot. Throughout the year, we kept finding one another at random events even though he had moved an hour and a half away. We never talked about getting back together but we did hookup a few times, the last being about six months ago and we havent seen/talked to each other since. The other day I get an invite to his graduation party from the academy. And then the other night he showed up to a dinner that our friends had. He kept starting conversations with ME, asking ME questions. He text me and asked me why I was being so quiet and when i said that I didnt realize I had been he stated that he just wanted to make sure that everything was ok(something that caught me off guard) And after I left he text me that it was nice seeing me and that it itll be nice to see me again at his graduation party, it has been too long. His this way of trying to get back into my life? Im so confused about his actions and what his possible intentions might be. Any help trying to understand this situation will be VERY helpful
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Sounds like he misses you and he wants you in his life. I dont know about nessesarily him wanting to get back together with you but if you want him to be in your life, let him be! just be friends like the way two normal people would meet. No random hooking up, or anything just be friends and you’ll be able to tell if you want to be more than that or if he does. then decide where your gonna aim for things to go
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It sounds VERY MUCH like he wants to be back in your life. im guessin he really misses you and cant get you off his mind. He keeps tryin to start up conversations. Follow your heart!
Good Luck!
Maybe he is ready to start something with you. He might have needed to finish the academy before getting in a serious relationship. You seem like you would be easy enough to talk to. You should talk to him about this and see where he stands.
i think he could be trying to get back into your life. i think he realized how much he DID love you and how much he regrets not "being there yet" when you were in love. talk to him. and ask how he’s doing. see what he’s up to. go to that graduation party and be sweet to hiim. do these things if and only if you want to be with him.
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OK, he seems to be genuinely happy to be with you, but it kinda sounds like he’s looking to you for a good time. that’s all you and him should make it, because it’s always a mistake to date the same person twice no matter what the previous circumstances were. sure you and him will be sound as a pound for the next couple weeks, then you and him are gonna start arguing about the same things that you used to. keep him for a good time until you find you’re better half.
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He definitely still has feelings for you. But, I wouldn’t go as far as to say he’s trying to get back together with you. Yes, he’s trying to become part of your life again. But, I think he’s trying to take things slow and see where they go. His intentions are to get to know you again. Maybe eventually go out again? Probably. But right now all he really wants is to see you and spend time with you. He still likes you a lot and is trying to see if it could work out between you. I think that right now he’s undecided and just wants to go with the flow and see how it goes.
yes he is trying 2 get back together with u give him a chance
No matter what curcumstances you go through or deal with in life, if its true and real ,nothing can and would be able to break it up. So just keep that in mind as you go. And from what you said i’d say yes he’s interested again in you. But just remember if he left so easily once he probably would be able to again. Just always keep that in the back of your mind as you handle this situation. And he is older and more mature now so that would help alot too so. It might even be better than before you never know. But i would make him prove himself now after the way it turned out cause he had to loose it for ya for it to happen in the first place. Just remember an ex is an ex for a reason, whatever that reason may be.
It sounds to me as if he was telling the truth all along. That he needed to get through the academy before giving himself permission to be in a loving relationship.
Having said that, I can understand your confusion. For you it may be opposite, that you’d appreciate a loving relationship during a stressful time. But there’s no doubt that men and women are different … this is just one of those things that proves it.
If you still love him, give him a chance (before you go to bed with him!!). Ya’ll talk through this, it’s your place to define the relationship … to find out what he really is looking for from you. If he’s still not ready to commit to a permanent, serious relationship I believe you should move on. If he is, then you two could move forward with some caution, but with marriage in mind.
Hi me and my ex boyf have stop talking/texing all because of me not leting him sty over w me then he tex me saying well you do you ima get out your way\" but i wasnt doing anything i made it seem i was but wasnt he have 5 babymommas 6 kids none by me. but i love him can u help me get him back to me.