How do you fall in love again?
My ex-husband and I have been together for 21 years, but in 2000 we divorced and got back together in 2005. We’ve been together since then, but I’m missing the passion and excitement. I love him, but I want it to feel new again. It only feels new and exciting when we have a little wine or mixed drinks. Is it possible?
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Yes it is possible but takes it very slow this time around and good luck…Cejay
It depends what you mean by love. If you mean the exciting butterflies feeling that may never return but if you mean long lasting mature love then you already have this because you are asking the question. If you need the excitement and passion ask yourself why this is more important than all the other stuff you are currently getting like companionship, support, friendship etc.
When you got back together in 2005, did you fall back into the old routine you were used to in 2000? If so, it will not be exciting because you are just back to where you started.
The two of you should try new things together. Take a cooking class or something that will spark something new inside both of you. Remember what you two did when you first met that caused the excitement and try to reccreate those moments.
As for the passion…it fades with time but don’t give up. Do something sensual for each other. Have a candle light dinner, bubble bath or a massage. Or just lie in each other’s arms and talk about your day. Make sure you connect with one another and hopefully you will feel the passion again.