<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"
	xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/"
	xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"
	xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"
	xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/"
		>
<channel>
	<title>Comments on: Adoptees for adoption reform: Would you all consider getting together and writing a book?</title>
	<atom:link href="http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" />
	<link>http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/</link>
	<description></description>
	<lastBuildDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000</lastBuildDate>
	<sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod>
	<sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency>
	<generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator>
	<item>
		<title>By: kateiskate</title>
		<link>http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/comment-page-1/#comment-10844</link>
		<dc:creator>kateiskate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/#comment-10844</guid>
		<description>Sure! I&#039;d be interested in that.

I&#039;d also be interested in compiling a book of adoption stories written by adoptees. 

Also I&#039;d be interested in writing some &quot;real&quot; stuff for adopted teens and young adults, with a focus on transracial ones. There were books on being an Asian teen when I was a teenager, but I never saw anything about being a transracial adoptee and a teen. Being a teenager is a confusing time in a person&#039;s life and I think a book geared towards adopted teens would be a great resources for kids and parents.

And lastly I&#039;d be interested in writing kids books, picture books about adoption in a &quot;real&quot; but gentle way. I love picture books and would love to make them my career one day.

eta: I also wanted to add that I think there is a need for more fiction relating to adoption and the true affect that it has on people. Both for teens and adults.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sure! I&#8217;d be interested in that.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d also be interested in compiling a book of adoption stories written by adoptees. </p>
<p>Also I&#8217;d be interested in writing some &quot;real&quot; stuff for adopted teens and young adults, with a focus on transracial ones. There were books on being an Asian teen when I was a teenager, but I never saw anything about being a transracial adoptee and a teen. Being a teenager is a confusing time in a person&#8217;s life and I think a book geared towards adopted teens would be a great resources for kids and parents.</p>
<p>And lastly I&#8217;d be interested in writing kids books, picture books about adoption in a &quot;real&quot; but gentle way. I love picture books and would love to make them my career one day.</p>
<p>eta: I also wanted to add that I think there is a need for more fiction relating to adoption and the true affect that it has on people. Both for teens and adults.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Mei-Ling</title>
		<link>http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/comment-page-1/#comment-10845</link>
		<dc:creator>Mei-Ling</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/#comment-10845</guid>
		<description>I would.

But I&#039;d highly prefer to do it with transracial adoptees rather than domestic adoptees. This is not meant to be a personal jab at anyone; it would be my preference simply because transracial adoption adds an extra layer of complexity that domestic adoptees don&#039;t have to deal with.

I still think it would be extremely important for domestic adoptees to write a book based on their experiences though. :) We could always use more voices.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would.</p>
<p>But I&#8217;d highly prefer to do it with transracial adoptees rather than domestic adoptees. This is not meant to be a personal jab at anyone; it would be my preference simply because transracial adoption adds an extra layer of complexity that domestic adoptees don&#8217;t have to deal with.</p>
<p>I still think it would be extremely important for domestic adoptees to write a book based on their experiences though. <img src='http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  We could always use more voices.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: cantstopLinnyG</title>
		<link>http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/comment-page-1/#comment-10846</link>
		<dc:creator>cantstopLinnyG</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/#comment-10846</guid>
		<description>I DO think we could get together and speak as &quot;one&quot;, with adoptees, and even with first Moms and adoptive parents...as long as were on the same page, so to speak. ;)  
 
However, I could not participate if it promoted infant adoption or the corrupt agencies that keep it going.
 
I mean, we do have certain rights under the constitution, and if someone didn&#039;t like how the book was going, they could quit and write their own based on their beliefs/truths. That includes myself.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I DO think we could get together and speak as &quot;one&quot;, with adoptees, and even with first Moms and adoptive parents&#8230;as long as were on the same page, so to speak. <img src='http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' />   </p>
<p>However, I could not participate if it promoted infant adoption or the corrupt agencies that keep it going.</p>
<p>I mean, we do have certain rights under the constitution, and if someone didn&#8217;t like how the book was going, they could quit and write their own based on their beliefs/truths. That includes myself.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Bodhi</title>
		<link>http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/comment-page-1/#comment-10847</link>
		<dc:creator>Bodhi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/#comment-10847</guid>
		<description>Sure... there is a huge need for reform when it comes to adoptees.  Even though I had a pretty positive experience myself, I recognize how screwed up this process is.  I had a very lively discussion last night with my husband about the staggering number of things that needed to change (lively because I got pretty passionate about it).

However, I think that it&#039;s difficult to change or comment on the adoptee experience/process without including the First Mother experience/process. They are naturally connected.

One of the main things I personally want to change about Adoption is the inability to access records - time begins with me, so to speak.  I think the first step in breaking that cycle and illustrating that we&#039;re not satisfied with that bond being broken is to include both Adoptees and First Mothers in any reform conversations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sure&#8230; there is a huge need for reform when it comes to adoptees.  Even though I had a pretty positive experience myself, I recognize how screwed up this process is.  I had a very lively discussion last night with my husband about the staggering number of things that needed to change (lively because I got pretty passionate about it).</p>
<p>However, I think that it&#8217;s difficult to change or comment on the adoptee experience/process without including the First Mother experience/process. They are naturally connected.</p>
<p>One of the main things I personally want to change about Adoption is the inability to access records &#8211; time begins with me, so to speak.  I think the first step in breaking that cycle and illustrating that we&#8217;re not satisfied with that bond being broken is to include both Adoptees and First Mothers in any reform conversations.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
	<item>
		<title>By: Flying Monkey #073177</title>
		<link>http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/comment-page-1/#comment-10848</link>
		<dc:creator>Flying Monkey #073177</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:09:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<guid isPermaLink="false">http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/2194/adoptees-for-adoption-reform-would-you-all-consider-getting-together-and-writing-a-book/#comment-10848</guid>
		<description>I would be willing to put my story, views and name on any publication that adequately shows my personal truths and beliefs without using them to promote an agenda I do not believe in. 

It wouldn&#039;t matter if we all spoke with one voice as long as we all spoke about similar topics. When compiling different stories unity becomes the editors job.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I would be willing to put my story, views and name on any publication that adequately shows my personal truths and beliefs without using them to promote an agenda I do not believe in. </p>
<p>It wouldn&#8217;t matter if we all spoke with one voice as long as we all spoke about similar topics. When compiling different stories unity becomes the editors job.</p>
]]></content:encoded>
	</item>
</channel>
</rss>

