What kind of financial assistance is available from the Army if I want to leave my husband and go back home?
My husband is an active duty soldier with the U.S. Army and we have several problems. I want to leave him, I can’t handle the stress of not being who he wants me to be anymore. I am broke, I don’t work and I know he won’t give me any money to get me and my things back home, which is 1500 miles away. I’m just wondering if there are any programs that offer assistance in these circumstances that would be available immediately?
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there’s really not much you can get through the military…if you are overseas then you can go into the the chain of command and start the paperwork for an early return of dependents but the service member also has to support the return and the chain of command has to approve it…if you are stateside you’re going to have to either work it out with your husband and have him help you get home or borrow the money from family…if he’s abusive then you may be able to assistance from the state maybe not to move home but they can help get you into a place, and a job until you save enough money to move home…
The Army isn’t going to support you. Call your family and friends.
You volunteered. If you want out, borrow some money for a U-haul and go. This soldier offers you nothing if you are bailing out. Why should the military assist you in quitting on a soldier and running off?
LOL you got to be kidding me right?
Get a job and save up. Why should the military foot the bill this is your choice.
You are on your own, except for family and friends, when you decide to leave your spouse. What is the deal with children? If there are any, then you can not simply abandon them on base, nor can you walk out with them in tow. You need to speak to a marriage counsellor. If these are not available on base, then speak to the chaplain. Remember that once you leave him you are not only still broke, but you no longer have a place to live or food on the table.
I am sorry to say that the military will not be helping you to resolve your problem. You will be out of pocket for your move.
none whatsoever if you are stateside. only HE can request an Early Return of dependents if you are living OCONUS and they will pay for a move back to your choice of location.
where do civilians get money for a problem like that if husband wont give them money to leave him? same situation. military wont help you. i am married to a Marine, live far away from home and although i have no intentions of leaving him….i still have my own job and bank account and wouldnt have it any other way. you cant let yourself get into these situations. good luck.