i dont want to feel like this anymore..how do i get over him?
my ex and i dated for 3 years we broke up 4 months ago…i know i should just let him go, but i can’t im so so so in love with him is insane and really pathetic. i hate myself for caring so much about someone who doesn’t even give me the time of day. when we broke up he said he didnt want to be friends and that was that. he was gone just like that.. i miss his friendship, i miss him sooo much..he was my best friend in the world and i thought we would be friends forever. how do i stop caring about someone who wants nothing to do with me? i think about him all the time, everything reminds me of him. i feel like such a loser, why is it impossible for me to get over him??? i feel like he toook my pride and now all that’s left is this pathetic loser…i dont want to be like this anymore..
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Its better to love than not of loved at all.
Look on the positive side, you learnt some new things (even without realizing it) and you can use your knowledge in further relationships. Now I know you think there will never be someone else etc but there will be. Just have faith. Cry as much as you need to altho if you are still crying after a month you must try and move on. Avoid eye contact and physical contact with him , that will help. Also just know there are billions of people out there feeling heartbroken at the moment. Everyone has relationship problems at some stage in their life. No doubt about it.
Its not impossible for you to get over him, its just hard because you loved him. But you know it was obviously not meant to be. This breakup happened for a reason even if you may not understand it. There is someone out there for you but its not this guy.
Hang out with friends, listen to happy feel good music, go shopping, exercise heaps (it helps) and hang out with new people. Take up a new hobby even. In time your heart will heal and you WILL get over him and meet someone else.
Remember, time heals everything.
I went through the same thing. Was this a first love? The first couple weeks are hard. But my ex came around about 4 weeks in. Do not contact him. Me and my ex broke up because of distance (LDR). But we still love eachother and still have ex sex. It wasn’t our fault the relationship wasn’t working. If he really cared about you then he wouldn’t just drop you like that. Give it time. If he comes back I would tell him to F*ck himself. Unless you feel like you can forgive him for dippin like that. Time heals everything. The human body heals itself when memories are pushed from the brain. Get out and have some fun. Staying home is going to make you feel awful.