Comments on: I still love my wife, what should I do?

By: jameskersey82

jameskersey82 — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:32:58 +0000

When December comes it will be a start of a whole new world for you,the judge will grant you visitation or maybe even custody if the mother is prov en unfit.You need to let her go, even if you would get back with her it would never be the same.Here’s what I see,one day you’ll be with some one else,[which takes time]and your kids wont be far, you may even have new kids with your new love.

By: <3

<3 — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:32:58 +0000

You should talk to her other family is she has some. Hold and intervention. She does sound like she needs help and thats what you are for. You were married for 20 years and you need to show her that you love her by getting her help. This may be hard but you’ll get through it.
hope it helped!

By: JLM

JLM — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:32:58 +0000

I am sorry that I don’t have much advice for you, except this: Request, through your lawyers (and if necessary, court-ordered), to have counseling together. Request this for the sake of your children. Family counseling, if you think it appropriate. During the process of this, perhaps you can somehow convey your feelings and your goodwill to her, as well as to your children. Even if it doesn’t work out, perhaps you can come to a mutual ability to communicate respectfully for the sake of your kids. At the very least, when your children are adults, they will know this in restrospect. Making any effort you can now will mean alot to them in their future.

Sounds like a sad situation and you have my sympathy. Good luck to you.

By: Roz

Roz — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:32:58 +0000

Is there a way that the doctor can put her on some medication so that she can think more clearly? If she is hostile towards you, how in the world do you envision you two getting back together?
I just don’t see how this could possibly work out. I’m confused as to what she wants (which doesn’t seem to be you, no offense), yet you want to make a go of it with her. I’m confused.

By: Sweetie

Sweetie — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 06:32:58 +0000

I agree with <3. Stay strong and be there for her. Talk with her. Show her you love her. Fight for your marriage, your family, and your WIFE! Don’t give up, buddy!

I don’t know if you’re a church going person, but Christ can help. You never know, faith might help you out a lot. Maybe you should just start with a simple prayer.

Anyway, I hope everything works out for you! Stay strong! God is with you.