How can I get my wife of 14 years to love me again.?
I know she still loves me , but we’ve seem to have lost that spark we had in the begining. I’m still very attracked to her. I just want what we once had. Any ideas on how to get her back in the mood ?
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Remember who you were and how you were when you met and first started dating. It was fun and exciting then, right? After a long term marriage, we settle in and get comfortable with each other, which is fine. But when we take the other one for granted, that moves into a whole nother level, and we begin to neglect our spouse’s needs and wants. After all, they’re not going anywhere, right?
So, to counteract boredom and a deteriorating relationship, we must dust off those old dance shoes, or bowling shoes, or whatever that you loved to do when you first met. Women always love romantic gestures, being made to feel special, loved, wined and dined, you name it, we love it if it comes from your heart.
I’ve been married for almost 15 yrs. myself and my husband says he loves me and doesn’t want a divorce, but there is no spark at all. I am still attracted to him, but he’s not attracted to me, so I know just how you feel. I think that it’s wonderful that you still care enough to seek help. I wish it was my husband on here asking for help. Good luck to you.
You can’t. it takes more then love to make a relationship work , and just not that . you can’t make anyone doing anything.
Surprise her with new things, like plan a picnic without her knowing it or just give her some nice surprises, like flowers.
Show her that you made an effort just for her. Buy tickets for a night out, stuff like that.
Drop everything and fly to Rome. The Colosseum may be the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen when it’s all lit up at night.
date night
Just any thing to break the routine. After a few years it gets boring doing the same thing every day. So do what you can to break the monoutomy. Flowers Candy, movies, walks, try to redo the things you did while you were dating.
My husband used to leave me herseys kisses every where, In my coffee cup, on the dashboard of the car, on the alarm clock.
You need to start doing things for fun and dating and courting again. Buy her flowers just because. Tell her she is the prettiest woman you have ever seen, give her a kiss and walk out the door to work. When you come home turn on the radio and dance with her.
Watch romantic movies together. Go through pictures and share memories together. Take her to dinner and out for long walks. Talk about what you want to her and listen to her just like you did when you first met. Meet her all over again.
This is life , tell hin what you think, she may have the some feeling! wish you happy life!